05/09/2026
⚖️ To claim Social Security on a living ex-spouse's record, you must be unmarried, and the marriage to that ex must have lasted at least 10 years.
If you remarry, eligibility on your living ex's record ends regardless of your age.
The age-60 rule that preserves survivor eligibility does not apply while your ex is still living.
Once remarried, spousal benefits on a new spouse generally start after one year of marriage, assuming both of you are at least 62.
If your ex dies and you remarried at 60 or later, you keep access to survivor benefits on the ex's record.
The 60 cutoff can drop to 50 if the remarriage occurred after you became disabled.
If a later marriage ends through divorce, annulment, or death, eligibility on the original ex's record can be restored.
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