11/21/2025
There are parts of my story I’ve kept tucked inside for years. Not out of secrecy, but because truth needs time to ripen before it’s ready to be witnessed.
And for a long time, I’ve been afraid to share. Honestly, I still am. Afraid of being misunderstood, judged, or mistaken for someone holding onto their story with victim mindset.
But the truth is: I’ve walked through the darkness.
I lost my mom to heart failure, which surfaced layers of inner child work. Later I found a love I thought was my future. Instead, I experienced the most heartbreaking love story I’ve lived through in my life, and afterward, betrayal by more than one person within the very industry I serve. I considered giving up more than once.
These weren’t stories I could rush.
I needed time to integrate, to sift through what was mine, what wasn’t, and why I kept reflecting patterns of calling these types of personalities in.
Discernment has been my greatest lesson.
Seeing red flags I once excused and denied.
Going against the visceral “no” that my body screamed. Learning to trust myself,but having to find her first.
I had to learn to choose myself over someone’s potential or persona, especially in a community built on “light” where shadows often hide in plain sight.
Now, I feel the shift.
The era of silence is over.
I’m done shrinking to be palatable or “spiritually correct.” I’m done pretending my path has been polished when it’s been raw, honest, and messy.
I’m not sharing this because I’m a victim.
I’m sharing it because leadership built on half-truths isn’t leadership at all.
My students deserve to know they’re held by someone who has lived her lessons, not just spoken them. Someone who rebuilt from ash without bypassing the fire.
So consider this the opening of a new era.
I won’t be holding back anymore.
Not my story, not my shadows, not my wisdom.
If you’re here for the real work, the depth, the reclamation, the truth-telling, stay close. And if you’re not, I’ll be here when you are.
I fought for my life to be here.
And now, I have arrived.
Rooted, steady and unshaken.
Here to hold others in their awakening.
To stand in my truth through the leadership I chose. ✨