08/26/2025
đź’ Is my self-worth measured only by my accomplishments?
💠Who am I if I’m not being productive?
💠Who am I if I’m not serving, pleasing, or accommodating others?
Many of my clients struggle with these questions. They feel like unless they are doing something "productive," helping, fixing, or rescuing others, they are not worthy. Not good enough. Not lovable.
This belief often stems from childhood trauma. In many cases, their parents conditioned them always to be giving. Praise and approval were tied to self-sacrifice. But the moment these children asked for even a little something for themselves, they were called selfish.
Over time, this pattern creates deep confusion around identity and value. If I'm not helping, do I still matter?
The answer is yes.
You are enough—even when you are resting, even when you are not giving.
You are allowed to exist simply as you are.
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