11/20/2025
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If you’ve ever watched your toddler lose it over a broken banana… you know the pain. 🍌
What looks small to us can feel huge to them. Their brains are still wiring for emotional regulation and flexibility — two skills that take years to master.
Some tips next time a banana is on the menu:
✔️ Give small choices ahead of time (“Do you want to peel it or should I?”)
✔️ Set expectations (“Sometimes bananas break, but they still taste yummy.”)
✔️ Stay calm, stay close, and validate feelings - they’ll borrow your calm before they find their own.
If you want to go beyond banana meltdowns and actually understand what’s underneath toddler behavior — my Toddlers and Tantrums Course is on sale right now as part of the PedsDocTalk COURSE SALE!
Head to pedsdoctalk.com to learn more about my courses on sale, including the one that will help you finally feel confident handling (and preventing) tantrums.
Parenting toddlers is humbling. But when you understand what’s really happening, it starts to feel a lot less personal and a lot more peaceful.
What’s the most random thing your toddler has melted down over lately? The banana breaking? The wrong color cup? I want to hear it.