Heritage Funeral Home of The Big Bend

01/19/2026

Today we honor the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., and reflect on his enduring message of compassion and service to others.

01/16/2026

When emotions run high, decisions can feel overwhelming.
Planning ahead helps put important decisions in place early, reducing stress and providing guidance for your family when it matters most.

01/14/2026

Getting your affairs in order doesn’t have to happen all at once.
These five steps offer a simple way to think through important details, at your own pace, so your family isn’t left guessing later.

01/12/2026

A new year brings reflection, and often, questions about the future.

Planning ahead allows time to consider your wishes carefully, creating clarity during moments that can otherwise feel overwhelming.

We’re here to answer questions when you’re ready.

01/01/2026

Happy New Year!

12/31/2025

As this year comes to a close, we pause to remember the lives we’ve honored and the families we’ve served. Thank you for trusting us with what matters most.

12/29/2025

Start the new year with peace of mind.
As you set goals for the year ahead, take this moment to plan for what matters most, protecting your loved ones and ensuring your wishes are honored.

Resolve to plan ahead today.

12/27/2025

Rafael Hernandez

Rafael Hernandez, age 38, of Fort Stockton, Texas, passed away on December 23, 2025.

He was born on July 4, 1987, in Boquillas del Carmen, Coahuila, to Hernán and Francisca (Diaz) Hernández. He married his longtime friend on July 12, 2014, in Fort Stockton, Texas. Rafael attended Fort Stockton High School in Fort Stockton, Texas.

Rafael, known to most as Rafa, Tomate, or Guero, was a friend to those who took the time to get to know him. He was a devoted husband and a loving father who would give the shirt off his back to help others. Those closest to him will remember him for his strong work ethic and the passion he had for his animals. In his free time, he enjoyed simple pastimes including gaming, watching anime, and fishing.

Rafael was preceded in death by several family members, including his loving mother, Francisca (Diaz) Hernandez; his beautiful daughter, Anahi Hernandez; his uncle, Robert Hernandez; his niece, Leilah Hernandez; his grandmother, Cruz Gonzales Diaz; his grandfather, Juan Hernandez; and his aunt, Flora Pacheco Hernandez.

Rafael is survived by his wife, Nancy Hernandez (Ontiveros); his children, Xavier Hernandez, Bradley Ontiveros, Brandon Ontiveros, Briana Ontiveros, Yaritza Hernandez, and Carlos Hernandez. His grandson Xavier Hernandez, Jr., his father, Hernan Hernandez; his siblings, Francisca Patlan (Abraham), Juan A. Hernandez (Cynthia), Hernan Diaz Hernandez (Elsa), Sergio Hernandez (Maria), Hector Hernandez (Analiza), Sandra Hernandez, Elisa Hernandez, and Eduardo Hernandez; his grandparents, Maria Ureste Hernandez and Demetrio Diaz Brito; and a multitude of aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews.

Rafael will be remembered for his heart of gold. Although he is no longer with us, his love will live on in the hearts of those who knew him.

The family invites all who knew and loved Rafael to join in celebrating his life and legacy. A public viewing will take place at Heritage Funeral Home of the Big Bend Chapel on December 29, 2025, from 10:00 AM, followed by a Rosary service at 7:00 PM that same evening. A Mass in Rafael's honor will be held at Saint Agnes Catholic Church on December 30, 2025, at 10:00 AM, leading to his graveside service and burial at St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery at 11:30 AM.

Pallbearers:

Hernan Hernandez, Hernan Diaz Hernandez, Eduardo Hernandez, Hector Hernandez, Sergio Hernandez, Juan Antonio Hernandez, Bradley Ontiveros, Hernan Rios Hernandez

View Rafael Hernandez's obituary, send flowers, find service dates, and sign the guestbook.

12/26/2025

Even the smallest note can bring great comfort.
Taking time to send a thank-you note after a funeral is a heartfelt way to acknowledge the love, support, and kindness shown during a difficult time.
Today on National Thank You Note Day, we’re reminded of the healing power of gratitude.

12/25/2025

To the families we have served,

As the Christmas lights begin to twinkle and the gentle hush of the season settles over our community, I find myself reflecting on the past year and the many moments we have shared together. Since I first walked the halls of Heritage Funeral Home, the trust you placed in us during some of life’s most tender and challenging times has become a profound source of purpose and gratitude for me.

Each farewell we have honored together has reminded me of the deep strength, love, and resilience that families like yours embody. It is a humbling privilege to have walked beside you—listening, supporting, and helping to preserve the cherished memories of those who have touched our lives. Your courage and kindness have left an indelible imprint on my heart, and I am deeply thankful for the honor of serving you.

During this season of hope and renewal, I wish you and your loved ones a peaceful Christmas filled with gentle moments, warm embraces, and the comforting presence of those who hold you dear—whether near or in spirit. May the new year bring healing, joy, and countless blessings to each of your homes.

From my heart to yours—thank you for allowing Heritage Funeral Home to be a part of your family’s story. Please know that we remain here for you, today and always, with compassion and open arms.

With sincere gratitude and warm holiday wishes,

Brooke
Provisional Funeral Director
Heritage Funeral Home

“The light of Christmas is not found in the gifts we give, but in the love we share.”

12/25/2025

The holidays shine brightest in the light of cherished memories. Wishing you comfort and warmth this season.

12/23/2025

The holidays can be especially difficult for those who are grieving. In this video, grief counselor Dr. Alan Wolfelt offers guidance on supporting a grieving friend during the holiday season. We invite you to watch, reflect, and share with anyone who may find comfort in these words.

This video with Dr. Alan Wolfelt explores how to be support your friends and family who are grieving during the holiday season.