
08/04/2025
Rethinking Fear, Reality & Healing
Happy Monday!
We had a great weekend at Jellystone with the kids, the last go of the summer! It was a great one overall but we're ready for some fall weather and football! (duh).
Today Id like to touch on a topic a bit different than usual but no less important.
Quick bit of context: I treat a lot of stressed out people. I see it on their faces, feel it in their muscles, hear the fear/anxiety in the choices of words to describe their day to day. So I like to learn about different causes of stress and then equip myself with insight and tool to help guide in the right direction.
Now this may be kind of "deep" but one large one is folk living in an extreme reality they created for themselves... Just keep reading...
There's a question that's been stirring in both science and spirituality for centuries: what if the reality we experience isn't the full truth?
Recent research by cognitive scientist Dr. Donald Hoffman suggests something taking note of. His interface theory of perception proposes that what we see, feel, and fear isn't necessarily reality itself, but rather a "user interface" our brain creates, so more of a simplified version of the world shaped not for truth, but for survival.
Think of it this way: your brain works like your computer desktop. When you click on a file, you're not actually manipulating the complex electrical patterns on your hard drive. You're using a simple interface that lets you interact with what you need without overwhelming you with unnecessary technical details.
AKA Your perceptual experiences don't exactly match properties of whats really happening, but instead provide a simplified, person-specific user interface to that world.
That means many of the signals we interpret as danger — like fear, pain, or anxiety — may not be accurate reflections of what's truly happening. They're alerts designed to keep us alive, which is incredibly helpful in life-or-death moments. But when it comes to everyday challenges like starting a new exercise routine, facing uncertainty, or dealing with chronic symptoms, this survival-based
filter can become a prison.
Why This Matters for Your Health
When you're stuck in this fear-driven loop, your body follows right along. Here's what happens: chronic anxiety increases stress hormones like cortisol. These elevated stress levels alter your breathing patterns, shift your posture, disrupt your digestion, interfere with sleep quality, and even heighten pain sensitivity.
Your amygdala, that ancient alarm system tucked deep in your brain, doesn't distinguish between a charging lion and a difficult conversation with your boss. It triggers the same physiological cascade: increased heart rate, shallow breathing, muscle tension, and a flood of stress chemicals. Over time, this constant state of alert can create or amplify physical symptoms, even when nothing shows up as "wrong" on imaging or lab work.
In the office, I regularly see patients chasing relief for symptoms that don't fully resolve until their nervous system calms down. The prefrontal cortex, your brain's executive center responsible for rational thinking and perspective, gets hijacked by the emotional centers when fear takes the driver's seat. That's not just mindset work — it's pure biology. And it starts with perception.
A Different Perspective
Dr. Hoffman's work, much like ancient Christian teachings, points to something even deeper. "Love your neighbor as yourself" isn't just moral advice. It may be literally true — your neighbor is yourself, through a shared universal consciousness.
That means you are not alone, not disconnected, and not broken. And you are not your fear — you are the awareness experiencing it.
Your insula, the brain region that integrates bodily sensations with emotional awareness, can actually help you observe these fear responses with curiosity rather than being consumed by them.
Scripture tells us, "Perfect love casts out fear." What if fear isn't something to fight, but something to see clearly and walk through with deeper trust?
You cant control every variable in your life or your body. But you can control how you see it. And that changes everything at a neurological level.
Your brain's neuroplasticity means it's constantly rewiring based on your experiences and perspectives. Each time you choose curiosity over fear, compassion over criticism, you're literally reshaping your neural pathways.
A Question to Reflect On:
What would change if I believed my fear isn't always the truth — just a message to question?
We're diving deeper into these questions with our Courage Catalyst content this month. Keep an eye out, and when you're ready, we're here to help you reconnect with your body from a place of curiosity, not fear. Your nervous system is remarkably adaptable, and with the right understanding and support, you can train it to be your ally rather than your adversary.
Thanks for your time and attention to this one. Let me know what you think!
With love,
Dr. Dom + Team
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