Heather Gillam - Sisu Lumi Counseling

Heather Gillam - Sisu Lumi Counseling Heather is a Licensed Marriage/Family Therapist in Fort Wayne focusing on s*x & relationship therapy

1 in 5 adults who seek mental health services are likely autistic but only less than 1% have been diagnosed. Something f...
08/14/2025

1 in 5 adults who seek mental health services are likely autistic but only less than 1% have been diagnosed.

Something for us all to keep in mind.

Highly encourage watching the linked video to the post for information on history of diagnosis, challenges of diagnosis, and common experiences of the lost generation. ☺️

07/31/2025
Gentle reminder. And this is true for ALL kinds of relationships as well (friends, family, children, coworkers, service ...
06/30/2025

Gentle reminder. And this is true for ALL kinds of relationships as well (friends, family, children, coworkers, service industry, etc).

These are lovely examples of some relationship check in questions to improve even healthy relationships. We can always g...
06/29/2025

These are lovely examples of some relationship check in questions to improve even healthy relationships. We can always grow. ♥️

100% They are just notifications that something needs attention.
06/20/2025

100%

They are just notifications that something needs attention.

06/19/2025

📖 RESEARCH: SEXUAL, ROMANTIC, AND COMMUNITY EXPERIENCES OF INDIVIDUALS AT THE INTERSECTION OF AUTISM AND ASEXUALITY 📖

This study explores the intersection of autism and as*xuality by analyzing data from the 2020 Ace Community Survey, which included 10,419 individuals identifying on the as*xual spectrum. The research aimed to investigate the prevalence of autism within this group and to examine differences in s*xual, romantic, and community experiences between autistic and non-autistic individuals.

Key Findings:

💡Higher Autism Prevalence: Among individuals on the as*xual spectrum, 6.9% identified as autistic, a rate higher than that observed in the general population.

💡 Stronger Identity Affirmation: Autistic participants reported a stronger identification with their as*xual orientation compared to non-autistic counterparts.

💡 Increased Disclosure: Autistic individuals were more likely to disclose their as*xual identity to others.

💡 Community Engagement: Autistic respondents showed higher participation in online LGBTQ+ communities and were more likely to be in relationships with partners who also identified on the as*xual or aromantic spectrum.

Implications:

The findings underscore the need for increased awareness and understanding of the unique experiences at the intersection of autism and as*xuality. Healthcare professionals, educators, and social service providers should consider these insights to develop inclusive and affirming s*xuality education and support systems. Such initiatives can promote self-acceptance and empower individuals to navigate their (a)s*xual journeys with confidence.

Read full text: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-025-03170-x

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05/30/2025
They certainly can feel like fairy tales. But let’s be honest, a lot of fairy tales include obstacles, challenges, effor...
05/27/2025

They certainly can feel like fairy tales. But let’s be honest, a lot of fairy tales include obstacles, challenges, effort, and then the happy ending. So really, healthy relationships DO feel like fairy tales. 😉

I’m not sharing in support of inflow (though it could be an awesome app and please use tools available for that help, I ...
05/13/2025

I’m not sharing in support of inflow (though it could be an awesome app and please use tools available for that help, I just haven’t looked into it yet).

I’m sharing because this is a good reminder and information on the impact of ADHD in relationships. I often see these things with my neurospicy clients and couples as well. It can be tough navigating a relationship with ADHD present, but so rewarding when you can learn to work together to accommodate it and build intimacy through it. 🥰

04/11/2025

Language like “A part of me got very triggered by what you just said and beneath that part of me was a part that felt hurt” conveys a much different message than “I really don’t like what you just said.” It also leads to predictably different results.

- Richard Schwartz

04/02/2025

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Tuesday 9am - 4pm
Thursday 9am - 12pm
Friday 9am - 6pm
Saturday 9am - 1pm

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The Credentials:

Heather Gillam, MS, NCC, LMFTA is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate working towards licensing in Mental Health Counseling and Marriage and Family Therapy in the state of Indiana. She is an Independent Contractor at Dunn Associates, P.C. providing Individual Counseling, Relationship Counseling, and Family Therapy.

Heather graduated in 2017 with Masters degree in Marriage and Family Counseling/Therapy from Capella University. She also holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology and Social Philosophy from Marquette University in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.

Heather is a member of Psi Chi: The International Honor Society in Psychology, Chi Sigma Iota: Counseling Academic & Professional Honor Society International, Delta Kappa: The International Marriage & Family Therapy Honor Society, and the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. She is also a Board Certified Counselor through the NBCC as a Nationally Certified Counselor.