
02/04/2025
Think back⦠Waaaay back. What food rules did you grow up with? How have they shaped how you think, eat, and parent today?
Research suggests childhood food rules can have lasting effects on eating behaviors (PMID: 15000971). We also know that using food as a reward is linked to emotional overeating and picky eating (PMID: 32548949).
So, itās time to flip the script because the research says what we were doing isnāt working.
But hereās the thing:
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to feeding kids. Every child, every family, every situation is different. Social media isnāt a substitute for nuance, but it can offer guidance.
š This isnāt about shaming parents. Itās about awareness and a fresh perspective on how we can support our kidsā lifelong well-being.
If this approach feels new or even uncomfortableāthatās okay! Learning takes time. Just like we want our kids to trust their bodies, we can give ourselves grace, too.
Before you comment, letās address a few things:
ā āMy parents did this, and I turned out fine!ā ā Many of us grew up with these messagesābut imagine if we had learned to trust our bodies sooner.
ā āSo, what? Kids should just eat sweets all day?ā ā Nope! This isnāt about throwing out structure. Itās about removing pressure and making food a positive experience.
ā āThis wouldnāt work for my child.ā ā Thatās okay! Every family is different. The goal is progress, not perfection.
ā” āBut nutrition is important!ā ā YES, absolutely! And thatās exactly why this matters. Because nutrition isnāt just about what kids eat todayāitās about how they learn to make food choices for life.
š” The takeaway? The more trust we build, the fewer battles we have. And thatās worth considering.
⨠Whatās one small shift you can make at mealtimes? Drop your thoughts below! Letās learn together. š
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