10/16/2025
You can't love someone but hate their autism. It's a part of who we are. Yes, you can dislike parts of our autism, like I'm sure there are parts of other people you don't like. However, the parts of us you do love? They're a part of our autism too!
If you removed our autism you would remove us. Everything you love and hate about us would be gone. We'd fundamentally be completely different people. So if you love an autistic person, their autism is part of what you love about them.
[Image description: A three panel comic of Honeydew, autism and all, being loved. The comic is titled "All Of Me" and is made by Theresa Scovil.
Panel 1:
Narration says "I'm not loved in spite of my autism."
Honeydew talks a lot, the words "Blah blah blah" repeated over and over again.
Ky looks at them all lovey-dovey, with little hearts over their head.
Panel 2:
Narration says "Autism is a part of me."
Honeydew stands alone, and smiles peacefully with a gold infinity symbol on their shirt.
Panel 3:
Narration says "And all of me is loved."
Ky leans in, looking at Honeydew all lovey-dovey, with little hearts over their head.
Honeydew looks to them and smiles.]