11/05/2025
TUG-OF-WAR
The Pull and Push of a dualistic relationship to others and the worLd.
The uni.verse is the one.song we all are dancing in. We flow in and out of HARMony and disCORD daily…moment to moment. It’s the dance we are all PARTicipating in to L.earn how to be aligned with our Divine natURe and Creator’s highest goal for us all.
Divine Natural living is the C.enter/middle path that leads to the growth/expansion of Light/Awareness, Love/Acceptance and Life/Creation.
Looking at the Kabbalic Tree of Life, the centered/balanced path leads to expressing more Light, Love and Life into our bodies, relationships and lives. The two pillars on either side of the central column are related to the thieves that were on either side of Christ (life redeeming). We all fluctuate back-and-forth between these two thieves. Thief = to covertly take from.
The thief on the left side is related to Yin, Receiving and Pulling. On this side of a relationship, we will pull on others covertly and blatantly to get our needs met. Covertly, we will please others. Which sounds altruistic, but over pleasing others is really saying, “Please _______ me!” Love me! Accept me! Protect me!
The thief on the right side is related to Yang, Giving and Pushing. On this side of a relationship, we will push on others covertly and blatantly to get our needs met. A common tactic of the right side thief is bullying which can be both covert and blatant depending on the application of the push exerted onto their worLd.
Our beliefs, expectations, emotional behavior, and actions led us to erroneously pulling on reality or pushing on reality to get what we need, want and desire. Each inDIVIDyouAll tends to be slanted one way or another. This slant (lean to) is unnatural. However, Creator’s plan helps us grow through and out of this imbalance through the Field of Attraction. This FOA evolves as we do. The level that most of humanity experiences this Field of Attraction is what we call Love. Love attracts its fix! It’s cURe!
For example, the overly pleasing (pulling) to get what they need will attract the pusher who is bullying to get what they want. We know this relationship as empath and narcissist. They can’t help but be attracted to each other! This is because there is a vacuum or avoid created by not being centered…by leaning to one side. They enter a relationship that at its very core is meant to help them balance out. To help them become natural beings and creators.
They are each needing to harmonize with that polar opposite. The empath needing to learn how to step up a little bit, and the bully needing to learn how to step back a little bit. Not understanding this deeper dance in relationships leads to either tip towing around, getting your feet stepped on or overstepping and stepping on. The dance of discord is not a fun one! However, it is meant to create beings who can dance gracefully with creator, others and the world creating more light, Love and Life!
Pulling and Pushing are rooted in a sense of separation! The false perception and belief that we were kicked out of the garden (rejected) when the entire planet is the Garden. A sense of separation from what we desire or need. In order to get what we need or desire, according to our psychology and personality, we will tend to be pullers or pushers.
Whether you’re a pusher or a puller, the first step is to go inside with awareness. Let the mirror of the relationship or situation show you where you need to go inside yourself… where you need healing aka balance aka shine Light-Love-Life.
Knowing something and groking it are two entirely different states. Knowing the above, doesn’t take it away like snapping your fingers. Knowing it helps, but you still have to look inside and do the work you need to do.
Healing is a process, not an event! Pulling and pushing on yourself is just as destructive as someone else doing it to you.
Your core/C.enter is the fulcrum with which you can move your world!
BROdhi Jon
* No AI was used in the writing of this article.
