
07/23/2025
This is your initiation.
Not a punishment.
Not a rejection.
An invitation to grow the f*ck up.
A boy does not become a man just because he ages.
There are 40-year-old boys walking around in grown bodies.
Age is not the marker.
Initiation is.
Most men will never even realize they’ve been called into manhood —
Because they’re too busy feeling sorry for themselves.
Too busy blaming, deflecting, avoiding.
Too busy looking at their woman like she’s their mother.
A real man doesn’t hide from the mirror.
He faces it.
He shatters the old self.
He chooses growth over ego — every time.
That moment — when you meet a woman in her power, her fire, her clarity —
That’s your opportunity.
That’s your wake-up call.
That’s the doorway to your next evolution.
Most will resist it.
Most will sabotage it.
But the ones who surrender?
They transform.
They become.
They rise into the kind of man who doesn’t need to be told what to do —
Because he’s already leading himself.
No woman wants to carry the mother archetype for her man.
That is not sexy.
That is not powerful.
That is not love.
This is your moment.
Rise. Or sit down.
Because the era of grown men doing sacred work has already begun.
And they’re not waiting.
Do you agree that men need to rise up ?