12/10/2025
I’m done with this narrative.
The Instagram coaches selling you “divine feminine energy” while telling you to stay passive, stay soft, stay broke - so you can attract a man to provide for you.
They’re teaching you to deny half of yourself. To wait. To perform softness. To make yourself small so you don’t intimidate men.
And they’re calling it spirituality.
It’s not. It’s patriarchy repackaged with crystals.
This belief keeps women trapped. It tells you that building wealth makes you “too masculine.” That providing for yourself blocks your feminine. That being strong pushes men away.
Sister, did you forget? Women used to rule. Without women, there would be nothing here.
Your feminine was never meant to be separated from your masculine. You need both. You’ve always had both.
Real flow is the constant dance between giving and receiving. Between building and resting.
Receiving doesn’t make a man less masculine. Providing doesn’t make a woman less feminine. That’s old-world thinking. That’s stagnant energy.
You can create your legacy, build abundance, and remain a receiver in your feminine. Both can be true.
Stop denying your inner masculine because you’re scared to appear “strong.”
It will filter weaker men out. The right ones match your power.