01/27/2026
Everything is hard right now, but you can only help or do good when you, yourself, are healthy and well.
The last couple of days have had me reaching for my phone many times more than I typically would. I'm sure it's like that for you, too. It's understandable.
But being 'on it' all the time can make things worse, not better.
I'm not saying to check out, tune out, or ignore things, but I am suggesting that you make your social media, phones, news, messenging, etc. more deliberate.
It can be as simple as turning off your notifications, sounds, or vibrations. Leaving your phone in the other room.
I've used News Feed Eradicator in my browsers for years.
I use RescueTime to limit (and sometimes block) sites that can take over my life.
I often use airplane mode on my phone and laptop to write in peace.
Yesterday, I installed Minimalist Phone (pictured) on my Android phone (it's available for iPhone, too).
It forces me to make deliberate choices to launch certain apps. It can (optionally) force me to sit through a delay, should I really 'need' to use those apps.
It can hide your notifications so they don't show on the bar, but you can still get them if you need them.
Its lack of icons and colors makes my phone really boring to look at, and far less tempting to play with.
It might not be for everyone, but I know that I feel a lot better when I don't constantly scroll and refresh all day.
I know it's hard. Don't ignore the world. But also, take care of yourself.
Roland