10/13/2023
Take a guess at what I would say is the most valuable skill as a doula. Go ahead and type that in the comments; I would love to hear what you think! After you do that, come back and expand the rest of the post :)
Now, that you took a guess (thank you!), here is what I think the most valuable skill (and my most commonly used one is). Quiet. When I am at a prenatal, you will find me listening. I will ask questions and find out the information needed to best support you, but the listening is when I hear what you desire most for your birth. When entering a birthing space, you will find me quietly assessing what support could be most helpful for that moment. Only after the quiet can I best jump in. During feedings, you will find me sitting quietly watching baby's jaw and mama's face. While a lot of my work involves education and hands-on support, this can't be done without the quiet moments.