04/30/2026
Raising my kids with confidence in their medical teams simply wasn’t an option for me. The inconsistency in care as a military family, the training facilities that treated us like guinea pigs and the sheer exhaustion from being default parent who moved communities and support systems every 24-36 month is unexplainable to those who don’t understand military culture.
We weren’t a part of the EFM community until our service members twlight tour. Largely, because of the stigma that being a medical fragile family was a liability to his career. Ironically, they re-enlisted him two more times after twenty years.
Trust me when I say the phrase, “WHEN PIGS FLY”…. Regularly flew out of my mouth that’s not an exaggeration. So clearly I had to take a picture when I saw this artwork!
If you’re new here, let me reintroduce myself. Hi, I am Emily. I created Reinforcing Wishes, LLC in 2020 as a caregiver support agency to help fill the gap in care I witnessed at all 10 duty stations. Families are expected to be their own lifeguards while in crisis , sleep deprived and generally overwhelmed. This is not acceptable.
Now my children are 18 & 21. We survived the broken system, occasionally we were able to thrive! I raised hell the entire time as an advocate for our kids and the other families. I naturally mentored others on the barriers in the system and how to overcome them or avoid it all together.
So what are we here for? Community, Coaching & Consulting. We offer services that are inclusive and accessible nationally. Text, call or email for your free consult if you’re feeling the crush of being a caregiver in a broken system.
Trust me when I share I have the head and heart knowledge to help support families in these experiences.
~ Emily Vass, MS, MA, RMHCI
Emily@reinforcingwishes.com
(850) 844-6798