06/30/2023
Do you know when you may be experiencing Manipulation? Did you know that manipulation is a form of emotional abuse? Sometimes, if you are around this for a long time, you might think it’s just ’normal’ behavior. Here are just a few indications that you may be being manipulated:
👉🏼Bullying via name-calling or labeling your personality or behaviors.
⚠️Triangulation-attempts to pull you into a dispute or disagreement involving another in an effort to win the case. This may even involve attempts to sway the masses and recruit others into bullying campaigns.
🤡These types are experts In picking up others weaknesses, triggers and sensitivities & they aim to intensify them to their advantage in an effort to gain a sense of power when they are feeling weak.
🚫Treating you like a little stupid baby, suggesting you are incapable of simple tasks, speaking down to you as if you have trouble understanding what they are saying.
🙅♀️Blame. They can’t be accountable, especially if you speak up to defend yourself. If you do, they are prone to convince you that you’ve really done something terrible-and you probably will actually be really confused about what is actually happening & what the real issue actually is because it’s not YOUR issue, it’s really theirs.
😱Threats, threatening to leave the relationship or take something from you.
What is the solution then?
👏🏼Self Approval 💕 Self Acceptance 🙌🏼Self Reliance 💪🏼
So often we can fall into the trap of seeking to identify ourselves by who we spend our time with. Spending time with what your SOUL wants to do is often much more gratifying.
👋🏼You can say goodbye, you can take a break, or you can break contact entirely. I guarantee you without all the drama, life will be more full of time to do what you actually want to do & there will be space for new people, if you choose. Your time is sacred. Be selective about who gets your energy & attention, you’re entitled to do that.
😻Faith🌟I know I’m always being guided in the right direction. And I know you are too. So, just ride the 🌊 wave & know you'll land exactly where you’re meant to. If people want to leave, let them & be at peace with it. You deserve so, so, so much more 🌈
I’m hosting a group healing event in July. The theme will be Clearing Emotional Abuse Patterning. Please DM me if you are interested; there is very limited availability.