10/11/2025
âMy horse bucks, but pain has been ruled out.â
âShe wonât pick up her right lead, but painâs been ruled out.â
âHe rears when I tighten the girth, but pain was ruled out.â
I understand where it comes from... itâs meant to say, âIâve done the responsible thing. Iâve had my horse checked.â And thatâs a good thing! Having your vet involved is a crucial first step.
But the reality is, pain can never be completely ruled out.
It can be minimized. It can be treated. It can be managed.
But ruled out entirely? Nope.
Horses are prey animals. Theyâre designed to hide discomfort until it becomes severe. Even with the best veterinary care, pain - especially when chronic - can be subtle, fluctuating, or context-dependent.
A horse might look sound in the exam aisle but struggle with certain movements under saddle. Maybe the issue isnât a clear injury, but muscle tension, gastric discomfort, saddle fit, or even mental stress creating real physical tension.
So, if pain has âbeen ruled outâ and the behavior is still there, one of two things is true:
1ď¸âŁ Thereâs a source of discomfort we havenât found yet.
2ď¸âŁ The horse is experiencing confusion, frustration, or emotional overload (which still deserves our empathy and adjustment)
Both possibilities lead us back to the same mindset: curiosity over certainty.
No matter what the problem turns out to be, we cannot approach it with force.
Pushing harder, âshowing them whoâs boss,â or labeling a horse as âlazy,â âspoiled,â or âstubbornâ does nothing to solve the problem. In fact, it almost always makes it worse.
Force might suppress a behavior for a while, but it doesnât address why the behavior happened. It risks adding fear and pain to a body thatâs already trying to communicate.
When we replace frustration with curiosity and pressure with compassion, we create space for trust, progress, and genuine cooperation.
When we approach behavior with curiosity, we stop seeing it as disobedience and start seeing it as communication.
Instead of asking, âHow do I stop this?â we begin to ask, âWhat is my horse telling me?â
Sometimes the answer lies in the body. Sometimes itâs in the training plan, the clarity of the aids, or the horseâs confidence level. But it always matters â and it always deserves investigation.
Ethical training doesnât mean assuming every issue is pain. It means recognizing that pain, confusion, and frustration are all valid forms of distress and that addressing them is part of our job as responsible, compassionate horsepeople.
We just have to keep listening â and keep adjusting â until they can say âyesâ again. đ