Rare and Remarkable

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Coming Back to YourselfI watched a short video on Disney called Self. It follows a wooden doll living in a world where e...
03/29/2026

Coming Back to Yourself

I watched a short video on Disney called Self. It follows a wooden doll living in a world where everything looks polished and perfect. Everyone around her seems smooth, shiny, and put together. Then she notices her reflection, and something shifts. She starts to feel like she’s not enough the way she is.

So she begins changing herself. She adds pieces, reshapes parts of her body, and keeps adjusting, trying to match what she thinks she’s supposed to look like. At first it feels exciting, almost like progress. Like she’s finally becoming better. But it doesn’t stop. The more she changes, the more she feels like she still needs more. It turns into this constant cycle of trying to fix something that was never actually broken.

Watching that felt familiar. At some point, you start believing you have to be more, more beautiful, more successful, more desirable, more like someone else. And without even realizing it, you begin to slowly move away from who you really are.

I think this shows up a lot in relationships too. You care about someone, so you start giving more, adjusting more, trying harder. You want to be what they need, what they want. And little by little, you stop checking in with yourself. You stop asking what you need. You start shaping yourself around them, and in that process, parts of you begin to disappear.

In the video, everything eventually falls apart. All the extra pieces she added can’t hold together, and they come crashing down. What’s left is her original self. Simple, imperfect, but real. And in that moment, you realize that was always enough.

That’s the part that stayed with me. There was never anything wrong with her to begin with.

Think about who you were before you started questioning your worth. Before you felt like you had to prove yourself, change yourself, or earn your place in someone’s life. That version of you is still there.

You are still whole. You are still enough.

You were never meant to become someone else. You were meant to be yourself. You are rare, and you are remarkable.

03/25/2026

Who am I?

When I stand in front of the mirror and really look, not just at my face but at everything behind it, I catch myself pausing. Like I am searching for something deeper than what I can see.

Because the truth is, I do know who I am… and at the same time, I am still learning.

I know the version of me I am fighting for.

I see her in my goals. In the way I keep going even when life feels heavy. In the quiet promises I make to myself when no one else is around to hear them.

I am strong. Not the kind of strong people always notice, but the kind that keeps breathing through pain, that gets up after breaking, that carries things I never talk about.

I am kind. Sometimes too kind. The kind of person who feels deeply, who gives even when I am running low, who wants people to feel seen because I know what it feels like not to be.

I am loving. I love hard. I love in a way that is patient, forgiving, and real. Even when it hurts. Even when it is not returned the way I hoped.

I am ambitious. There is a fire in me that refuses to settle. I want more for my life. I want growth, purpose, and something that feels meaningful.

I am trustworthy. I try to show up, even on the days it feels heavy. I try to stay, even when part of me wants to shut down or run. I hold things with care, with intention, because I know how much it matters. I do not always get it right, but I am learning not to walk away when things get uncomfortable. It is hard for me sometimes, harder than I like to admit, but I choose to stay. I choose to face it, to work through it, to figure it out instead of leaving.

I am someone who will give everything for the people I love. Sometimes more than I should.

But none of that came easy.

I had to learn it. I had to go through things that forced me to become this version of myself. Pain shaped parts of me. Loss changed me. Life tested me in ways I did not expect.

And still… I am here.

Still trying. Still growing. Still asking questions.

Because if I am being honest, the hardest part is not knowing who I am on paper. It is understanding who I am when everything is stripped away. When I am alone with my thoughts. When I am not trying to be strong for anyone else.

Who am I without the roles I play?

Without being the strong one, the kind one, the one who holds everything together?

Maybe I am someone who is still healing.

Maybe I am someone who is learning how to choose herself.

Maybe I am someone who is tired of giving pieces of her heart away without keeping enough for herself.

And maybe… I am someone who is finally starting to see her own worth.

Not because of what I do for others.

But because of who I am.

So who am I, truly?

I am becoming.

And for the first time, that feels like enough.

You Matter. Yes, You.I want you to read this slowly, like I’m sitting right beside you, saying it from my heart.You matt...
06/27/2025

You Matter. Yes, You.

I want you to read this slowly, like I’m sitting right beside you, saying it from my heart.

You matter.
Not just when things are going well.
Not just when you're strong, smiling, or productive.
You matter even when you're tired, overwhelmed, or not sure what your next step is. You matter even when the world feels loud and you're struggling to hear your own voice.

There were times in my life when I didn’t believe I mattered. Times when I felt invisible, like my pain didn’t count because someone always had it worse. Times when I smiled in front of people and cried behind closed doors. I’ve battled shame, self-doubt, and silence. I’ve been misunderstood, let down, and left out. And yet, I kept going. And so have you.

You being here today means something. You are proof that resilience is real. That surviving is brave. And that healing is possible, even if it takes time.

I created Rare and Remarkable to remind people that being human is messy and beautiful at the same time. I wanted a space where we can be honest, feel seen, and lift each other up, not just with pretty words, but with truth.

If no one has told you lately:
You are important.
You are needed.
Your story is not over.

Comment below if you've ever felt like giving up but chose to keep going. Or tag someone who might need this reminder today.

You are Rare. You are Remarkable. And I’m so glad you’re here.

05/02/2025

I’ve already shared a few parts of my journey and everything I’ve been learning along the way. In my last post, I talked about letting go - especially of people who disrupt your peace. That was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to learn. I used to believe every person who came into my life was meant to stay, and it was my job to keep them happy, even if it meant losing myself in the process.

But the truth is… your peace matters. Your well-being matters. Letting go doesn’t mean you’re heartless—it means you’re healing. And sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is choose you.

If you’re struggling with this too, know that you're not alone. Be gentle with yourself. Take one step at a time. Reflect. Set boundaries. Remind yourself that you’re worthy of love that doesn’t hurt.

✨ If you want to read more about letting go with love, check out my last post.

Now I want to hear from you—what’s one thing you’ve overcome that you never thought you could?
Drop it in the commentsbig or small, your story matters. 💬💛
You might inspire someone more than you know.

"Letting Go with Love: A Note to the Ones Who Had to Walk Away"There comes a time in life when protecting your peace mea...
04/08/2025

"Letting Go with Love: A Note to the Ones Who Had to Walk Away"

There comes a time in life when protecting your peace means making one of the hardest decisions you’ll ever face—choosing to distance yourself from someone you deeply love. Sometimes, that person is a friend, a partner, or even a family member. And when that love is tangled in patterns of disrespect, manipulation, or emotional pain, the choice to let go doesn’t feel like freedom at first. It feels like grief.

Recently, I had to make that decision. It wasn’t impulsive. It came after countless chances, gentle conversations, silent prayers, and the overwhelming hope that things would change. But when a relationship begins to chip away at your spirit, when love becomes conditional, heavy, or laced with toxicity, the bravest thing you can do is walk away—not in anger, but in love. Not to punish, but to preserve.

I’ve spent days replaying everything, analyzing words said, moments shared, and questioning if I made the right choice. And even though the sadness lingers, deep down—I know I did. Because love should never be a place where you feel small, unsafe, or unseen.

To anyone who is struggling with a similar decision, I want you to know this: Choosing yourself is not selfish. It’s sacred. Your boundaries are not a betrayal; they are a declaration of your worth. Sometimes the most loving thing we can do—for ourselves and for the other person—is to step away and allow space for growth, healing, and self-reflection.

Letting go doesn’t mean you stop caring. I still hope the best for this person. I hope one day they’ll look back and understand the "why" behind the goodbye. I hope they’ll see the love that was there, the effort that was made, and maybe—even grow from it. But whether they do or don’t isn’t mine to carry anymore.

If you are navigating a toxic relationship, here are a few things I’ve learned:

✨Pay attention to patterns, not promises. Words can be sweet, but behavior is truth. If someone continually disrespects your boundaries, that’s not love—it’s control.

✨ Don’t wait for people to change to feel better. Change has to come from within them. You’re not responsible for saving anyone at the cost of losing yourself.

✨Grieve what could’ve been. It's okay to mourn the version of the relationship you wished existed. That grief is real, and healing takes time.

✨Surround yourself with people who get it. You’re not alone. There are others walking this same road. Find your tribe, your community, your safe space.

✨Forgive—without reopening the door. Forgiveness is for you. It doesn’t mean access. You can wish someone well from a distance.

Most importantly, always remember this: You are Rare and Remarkable. You deserve love that uplifts, friendships that respect, and relationships that honor the light within you. Choosing peace over chaos is not weakness. It is strength. And when you choose yourself, even through tears and trembling hands—you are choosing life.

One day, someone may read this message and see their reflection in it. Maybe even the person I walked away from will, too. And if they do, I hope they choose growth. I hope they choose to love better. And I hope they understand that even though I let go—I did it with love.

It’s Okay to Start OverStarting over is hard—no matter how big or small the situation is. But spring is almost here, and...
03/25/2025

It’s Okay to Start Over

Starting over is hard—no matter how big or small the situation is. But spring is almost here, and there’s something about it that makes me reflect. Maybe it’s the way the flowers bloom again, the trees come back to life, and the air smells fresh and new. Nature doesn’t apologize for beginning again. It just does. And maybe that’s the reminder we all need… it’s okay to start over.

Three years ago, I had to start over completely. I lost everything. A relationship I truly believed would last forever. My family—who should have been there—wasn’t. Friends disappeared. I was left alone. Completely alone. It was the darkest and most painful season of my life. I questioned everything. My worth. My purpose. My future. I didn’t understand why I had to go through something so heavy and heartbreaking.

There were days I didn’t want to get out of bed. Nights I cried so hard, I could barely breathe. I remember feeling like I was drowning in my own pain, wondering if I’d ever feel whole again. And what hurt the most? My family wasn’t there to guide me. To comfort me. To help me stand.

But I wasn’t entirely alone even thought I felt like I was. My best friend showed up for me when no one else did. She sat with me in silence when words were too much. She reminded me to eat, to breathe, to keep going. And then there was my boss—who is so much more than a boss. She’s my cheerleader, my constant source of encouragement. She saw strength in me when I couldn’t see it myself. I will forever be grateful for her.

Now, as I sit here reflecting, I realize something beautiful happened during that painful time: I found myself.

I rediscovered who I am. I became stronger—emotionally, mentally, spiritually. My confidence slowly grew. My independence blossomed. I learned how to love myself again, even when I felt unlovable. I started choosing me—my healing, my peace, my growth. Everything I went through… it needed to happen. As painful as it was, it pushed me to fight for the life I knew I deserved.

Was it easy? Absolutely not. Some days I wanted to give up. Some days I felt completely numb. But I kept showing up for myself. I kept asking the hard questions: What’s my purpose? What am I here for? What kind of life do I want to build?
I didn’t always get the answers right away. But little by little, things started to make sense. And slowly, light began to creep into the darkness.

Today, I’m still healing. Still growing. Still learning. But I’m no longer in that dark place. I’m in a healthy, happy relationship—the kind I used to dream about. I feel safe. Secure. Loved. Understood. I’ve learned what real love looks like, and most importantly, I’ve learned to give it to myself first.

So if you’re reading this and you’re in your “winter” season—where everything feels cold and lifeless—hold on. Spring will come. You will bloom again. You can start over.

And starting over doesn’t mean you failed. It means you were brave enough to begin again.

You are not broken. You’re just becoming.

So give yourself permission to start fresh, no matter how many times it takes.

Trust the process.

Trust yourself.

And remember—it's okay to start over.

If you liked and shared this post, I’d love for you to also follow my page! It truly encourages me to keep writing, sharing, and creating more content that uplifts and inspires. Your support means more than you know!”

03/13/2025

Why should you follow this page? Why should you take the time to hear what I have to say? Let me tell you why.

My mission is simple: to make a difference, no matter how small. I want this page to be a place where you can lean on, a space where you find encouragement, where you remember that you matter. Maybe you’re feeling lost, maybe you’re feeling like you aren’t good enough—like you’re invisible. If that’s you, I understand, because I’ve been there too.

I was that person who felt small, who felt unimportant. No matter what I did, it never seemed to be enough. And the hardest part? The people who made me feel that way were the ones closest to me. It took me a long time to break free from that cycle, to rewrite my own story, to find my worth in a world that tried to convince me I had none.

So how did I rise above it? How did I take back my power? That’s what this page is about. I want to share my journey with you - not just the struggles, but the lessons, the growth, and the strength that came from it.

At the end of the day, I’m just a person - flawed, learning, growing - navigating a life that wasn’t always fair. But through it all, I’ve discovered something powerful: pain doesn’t define us. We define ourselves. And if my words can help even one person see their own worth, then every challenge I faced was worth it.

So stay, read, and grow with me. Because you are rare and remarkable -and it’s time you believe it too.

03/13/2025

Hello, Beautiful Souls!

I've been away for a little while, but I’m back—and I’ve been working hard to make this page even better! 💛✨ This is Rare and Remarkable, now with an updated logo that truly reflects the heart and soul of this community.

A warm welcome to all my new followers! Thank you for being here, for believing in this space, and for inspiring me to keep writing and sharing positivity in this sometimes-crazy world. Your support means more to me than words can express.

I appreciate you all so much! 💫💛 Stay tuned—there’s so much more to come!

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