04/28/2026
Good afternoon Yogis! For the last few weeks, we have been working on decluttering our physical, and mental space. Getting our houses organized and keeping them that way also requires that we be incredibly discerning about who we spend our time with, what we spend our time doing, and what thoughts we allow to occupy our minds. If you happen to have any energy vampires in your life, it’s time to put up some boundaries. Energy vampires are people who prey upon kind, heart- centered people. They constantly complain and only want to talk about themselves, or gossip about other others. They need nonstop attention, and will zap your energy! Some are highly narcissistic, and thrive on drama. They can also be highly competitive and won’t hesitate stabbing you in the back to get ahead. These people, instill guilt, and always strive to make others feel like they’re not giving enough. They are manipulative and pathologically self-centered. When you  have an energy vampire who is stealing your energy, it’s impossible to keep your life organized. If there are people in your life who are chronically negative, please limit your time with them or discontinue spending any time with them all together. Upholding healthy boundaries is imperative in this case. To determine where your boundaries are, and to feel if someone is encroaching on them, it’s important to really tune into how you feel when you are around these people, and be very aware of how they speak.
One thing that I have found is: when people don’t have good boundaries, they use their physical possessions- their “stuff” to build walls around themselves to feel protected. It’s so important that we surround ourselves with positive people who uplift us, and practice assertiveness to decline any negativity in a polite way. These strategies will help us maintain our emotional well-being and keep energy draining influences at bay. Be aware of red flags, such as negativity or manipulation, and use visualization techniques to imagine a protective shield around you. Prioritize self-care activities, like rest, hobbies, and mindfulness to recharge your energy. Stay grounded through deep breathig or spending time in nature, and be cautious about sharing any personal information with these people. It’s important to gracefully bow out of conversations that involve gossip, or seems destructive. You can simply say, “ Hey I need to be honest, this conversation is making me feel very uncomfortable and I think it would be better to talk about something else.”
Protect your energy by surrounding yourself with positive people who want the best for you. People who create a nurturing environment, where you feel safe, and secure. People who care to uplift and foster your growth. Join me for Pilates this evening from 5-6pm.