Ted Mattis Counseling

12/17/2025

If you’ve been told by your estranged adult child that silence is just a boundary, please hear this: intentionally hurting someone by shutting them with therapy jargon isn’t healing, and it certainly isn't love. You deserve clarity, respect, and honest communication. Don’t let anyone convince you that cruelty is wisdom. Take care of your heart, lean on those who understand, and remember—you’re allowed to seek peace, support, and truth in your own life. —Anna Strand

12/15/2025

Just because you believe a lie doesn't make it true!

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12/15/2025

12/09/2025

Avoiding hard conversations doesn’t protect peace, it poisons it slowly.

Silence turns small issues into deep resentment.

When someone avoids discomfort at your expense, they’re choosing distance over connection and control over emotional safety.

12/08/2025

12/07/2025

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11/28/2025

“Judge not, that you be not judged. 2 For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Matthew 7:1-2

09/05/2025

There’s an epidemic in our culture right now. This lady, Tania Khazaal, hits the nail square on the head. It’s time for a reassessment of what ‘mental health’ really is. It cannot be isolated from the systems we live in or grew up in. For sure, there are situations that warrant it for physical protection sake. ‘I’ am not the foundation of society, ‘family’ is. Tear the family apart because of ‘hurt’ feelings does damage to society. When the ‘I’ takes precedent over the ‘we’, we all lose.

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06/12/2025

Only a fool hears the lies of a friend and holds them to be true