
09/02/2025
As school starts, I am reminded of the good ol’ days when I took the kids individually shopping for school clothes. We had such a good time one on one shopping and having lunch, chatting and connecting. Now my kids are adults with their own kids taking them school clothes shopping. I remember loving those years and never wanting them to grow up. I also remember the times they chose to do things that scared me and made me nervous. In every way I wanted each of our kids to follow their heart, their passion and be independent. There were times as a parent the hardest thing to do was to allow them to be who they wanted to be.
We taught our first online Art of Listening Class this past month. It was fun. I was reminded by those who were in the class of the difficulty that presents when children want to be independent and yet you see and hear the call for help behind their actions.
I remember when our son was a drummer in a rock band, at age 18 he started touring the country playing shows all over the US. It was his passion; I was not going to stop him. He wanted that independence and the dream. I was a mother on call. I didn’t have a beeper, but I was there on the other end of the phone to listen to his stories, mishaps, accidents, joys and find hotel rooms at 1:00 AM in an unfamiliar city. He grew and got stronger in his convictions. If I had it my way I would have had him stay home but he would not be who he is today if I did. He now has a son of his own who was born with a disability. His desires for his son are not the desires he has and now it is his turn to allow his son to live his life, passions and loves. The circle of life and love continues to go on.
One of our students has an adult son who was recently disabled. She and he are learning a whole new way of listening to each other. He is still an adult and wants as much independence as possible and she is back in the mothering protecting caretaking role. Learning to listen to what the person wants may be as simple as asking “What do you want from me?” “How can I help you best?” If you automatically respond to others from what you want for them, you are not listening. You are giving them what you want, not what they want. It’s a tough lesson with kids, spouses, coworkers, friends and family members. Try listening without an agenda, without a need to save, protect or fix. It may surprise you at the response you will get.
We have recorded 6 videos in the Art of Listening. It's a great deal and will make a big difference in your relationships. The better listener you are, the happier your life will be. Purchase it today while it’s at a smoking deal! Click the link below to get the Art of Listening Course and share with your friends. Happy Listening!
With love,
Joyce and Steve Brinton
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