03/26/2026
Kids and teens with OCD don't want to behave the way they sometimes do when they're distressed. Tantruming well past the age when it is developmentally appropriate, displaying great rigidity, and insisting that nonsensical rules be followed by others are all examples of common behaviors of young people diagnosed with OCD.
When overwhelmed, frustrated, or exhausted by OCD symptoms and related behaviors, it helps to slow down and remind ourselves that the problem is an underdeveloped brain flooded with and overwhelmed by distress, not a character flaw or active choice. When we depersonalize the child or adolescent from their OCD symptoms and related behaviors, we are less reactive and better able to respond supportively in the midst of the difficulty OCD creates.
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Follow to learn more about how parents and others caring for young people diagnosed with OCD, OC spectrum disorders, and anxiety disorders can offer support and how ERP, mindfulness-based CBT, ACT, parenting training, and SPACE can help.
Looking for therapy for your child, teen, or young adult or SPACE parent training to manage their symptoms? Contact the Children's OCD & Anxiety Collective through our website. See link in bio.
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