10/20/2025
When the shimmering sound of handbells echoes through Eskaton Village Carmichael, it’s likely Vera Refnes at the helm directing her fellow residents.
Vera’s story with the Bell Choir is closely tied to the community’s history. Around 35 years ago, when Eskaton Village Carmichael was first established, a resident and former music director brought her own set of bells and started the choir. After her passing, Vera was invited to audition as the new director. “That was about 25 years ago,” she recalls. “They hired me as an outsider to come in and direct the bells. And when I became a resident two and a half years ago, I just continued.”
Music has been part of Vera’s life from the start. Raised in a very musical family, she and her three siblings practiced instruments and piano daily before school. She went on to major in music in college and continues to play both piano and trombone, as well as perform in her church orchestra.
Her introduction to handbells came about 45 years ago at a music conference in Los Angeles. “I’d never experienced handbells before,” she says. “It sounded like fun… so I went!” Inspired by that class, she returned home and helped start a bell choir at her church. It was through that group that Vera first connected with Eskaton’s Bell Choir, leading to the role she holds now as both resident and director.
This fall, Vera and the Bell Choir began rehearsing for their upcoming Christmas concert, a performance sure to ring in the season with joy and community spirit. Beyond her musical pursuits, Vera also enjoyed a long teaching career, leading choirs and drama programs while teaching students from kindergarten through middle school. “I just realized it was a gift and something that I could succeed in,” she says.
When asked what she enjoys most about leading the Bell Choir, Vera’s answer is simple: “Success. People get lost, play the wrong notes, or fall behind… but when everyone comes together and makes it through the piece, it’s great! That’s success!”
Through her lifelong love of music and teaching, Vera continues to bring people together—one note, one bell, and one joyful rehearsal at a time.