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11/30/2025

You Are Not a Solo Act

Life as we know it on this planet
is dependent upon breathing.

Breathing happens
because we are being breathed.

We will keep breathing
until we outgrow the form that needs it.

Living happens
because we are being lived.

We will keep living
forever.

As we get to know and feel
That which is living us,
we will outgrow our fear
of changing forms.

11/29/2025

Being Held

When you identify the underlying fear
that is most blocking your progress and liberation,
and commit to feeling into and through it
with non-judgment,
you will gain rarefied, unbroken views
of yourself, others and mankind.

A frightened lie loses its will to hide
when ensconced in
the transforming sunshine of Love.

Embrace your fears
with the tenderness you would
enfold a scared toddler.

You may just find
that it is the terrified tot in you
that is the part that is holding on.

Be with him or her with relentless tenderness,
and in the safe hug of deep compassionate listening
you may be able to allay the little one’s fear.

Most things can be let go of
when we trust that releasing
is more salubrious than clenching and hiding.

We are all being held
by a reassuring Presence
that has never let us go.

11/28/2025

When Your Authentic Heart Calls You

When your authentic Heart calls you,
you will recognize it
by its irresistible pull
from a resonating Center within you.

It holds no space for the past.

It will draw you toward it,
blowing by your old rules
that used to bind you
in your conditioned protocols
of not creating disturbances:
of staying polite,
and therefore,
in the good favor of others.

As you release into it,
allow yourself to feel
a deluge of Love
that frees unknown tears
of gratitude and ineffable awe.
It feels like:
“Finally I get to be honest.
I get to tell and live MY truth.”

When your Heart calls you,
drop everything,
and answer the damn phone.

11/27/2025

Conscious Reframing

Can you think of a specific incident
when you believe
that someone made you unhappy
or disappointed you?
Got one?

Here’s the Conscious Reframe:
In that exact moment
they took the best action they could find,
and you chose to be unhappy
because it did not fit
with what you expected or wanted.

You found yourself out of inner peace
and defaulted to blaming them
for your self-deflation.
Crazy, I know.

This is not to justify what someone did.
It to suggest that the conditioned
mind likes to assign emotional reactions
to a source outside of itself.
That way it doesn’t have to look within.
It can stay soporifically deluded.

All someone can do is trigger
that which is already within you.

This is very exciting if you are interested
in honest inner work,
and experiencing the freedom
of authentic autonomy.

11/26/2025

A Field of Infinite Possibility

You are a field of Infinite Possibility.
This is true
in quantum physics and metaphysics.
This is an eternal certainty.
What happens in that field is uncertain:
forever new, expanding, and to be determined.

By getting caught in your mind’s stories
about what is supposed to happen,
you fall into the delusion of certainty
that you are in control,
and thus limit the likelihood
that you will consciously experience Grace.

It’s not that Grace is not acting on your behalf,
it’s just that you may not recognize It
if your mind is so wrapped in making life happen
that you are not open to the burgeoning Moment.

What if your sole (and soul) desire
was to watch and experience
Life dancing you and everyone else
each moment?

And,
what if you put zero “shoulds” in that picture?
You would be watching
the Choreographer of Infinite Possibility
delineate Itself everywhere.

Let’s dance to that Music!

11/25/2025

United Heartbeats

Whatever is most vital in your life
determines what you will
most deeply cherish
and connect with in another.
You can’t fake this.
You display it every day.

As you refuse to judge yourself
you will have no desire to judge another.

As you let your awareness rest
in the pure, sacred yearning in your heart,
you will appreciate a similar yearning
in every heart.
There are no exceptions.
Deep inside,
we all want the same Love.

To find this united heartbeat,
let’s be with each other
in such a way
that we look for, see, and honor
what we have in common.

11/24/2025

Listening Hearts

Give others the gift of a listening heart
as opposed to a talking head.

They most likely have many voices
already talking in their head.
They don’t need another one.

When someone feels genuinely listened to,
it can help them find their own authentic heart.

When you allow your non-judgmental heart,
to listen without any agenda
to fix or direct them in any way,
you will help them discover
more of the matchless worth
you cherish in them.

11/23/2025

Everyone Is for Each of Us

Each of us serves two main functions:
we are trying to work out who we are,
while at the same time
we serve as a mirror for everyone else
as they work out who they are.

Whatever you see in another that bothers you
represents an unconscious part of you
that needs your attention.

Whatever you see in another that
you wish you could express more fully,
represents an innate part of you that is buried
and waiting to be released.

Each person in your life
is part of your divine curriculum.
They are a mirror for you
so you focus on the only thing you can change,
yourself.

Don’t miss these Grace-given opportunities
by judging, envying, or idolizing others,
making your issues about them.

The universe is designed
to help us each evolve.

11/22/2025

Detours to Enlightenment

Most detours around enlightenment are disguised.
They wear masks that make us think
there is a short-term benefit to avoiding
the direct path of staying present
and learning from each moment.

The more we make the unconscious conscious,
the more explicit the route.

The only short cut to enlightenment
is to avoid any conscious detours.

The Ride of Your LifeYou can push againstthe flow of Life,but you will never win.All that will happen*s that you will pa...

11/21/2025

The Ride of Your Life

You can push against
the flow of Life,
but you will never win.

All that will happen
is that you will paddle hard
and still get pulled downstream,
except that it will feel very scary
because you will be facing backwards
and be always disturbed by the unknown.

Alternatively,
you can open your heart
to the direction of the River of Life,
face it full on,
and literally have the ride of your Life.

You will never lose anything
by yielding each moment to Anahata:
the deep divine resonance
in your authentic heart.

Actually, you may lose some things:
ego, strain, frustration, ambition, envy,
emotional reactivity, discouragement,
anxiety, scarcity, perfectionism, desperation,
and constant suffering.

11/20/2025

Moments of Meditation

In the still moments of meditation,
when you are letting whatever arises
come and go, or be as it is,
you are free
from being caught
in needing anything to be different.

In these sacred moments
of innocent surrender,
you are liberating from the ego
and from the non-stop inner critic.

In these precious moments
of conscious awareness,
because you are at peace
with the ever-unfolding Unknown order,
anxiousness and fear are dissolving.

In these simple, quiet moments
you are releasing egoic conditioning,
and thus opening new spaces
for divinely natural clarity and wisdom,
and a deep valuing
of your and others’ soulful identities.

All this from prioritizing,
moments of meditation.

11/19/2025

Continuous Inspiration

What if you trusted
that the deepest inspiration
you could apply in your life
is always available to you each moment?

You just need to sit in stillness at the table
so the meal can be served.

If you think you can handle more
than what you are receiving,
then open with true humility,
welcoming the Unknown,
and see what shows up.

Then, take what you receive
and live it as guided
with full vulnerability and awareness.

Inspiration is given to us
to be immediately consumed and digested,
not to be stored on a metaphysical shelf
for future reference.

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