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02/12/2026

Ego Death

02/11/2026

Ho’oponopono

02/06/2026

The Awareness of Not Being Understood is the Awareness of Not Understanding Yourself-Michelle La Vergne.

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01/18/2026

If anyone would like some Venus energy today you are more then welcome to come to my group. I know many of us woman are in our masculine and we really could use some feminine. It is from 3-5pm PST today Jan 18th. Here is the link..

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12/31/2025

Happy New Years From Creative Healings 🌻 2026 is the Fire Horse Year Let’s Go not only is it a 1 year it is a 10 Have Fun!

12/18/2025

🌻In-Law Abuse Is Very Real🌻

In-law abuse is very real, and one of the most painful forms of it happens when a family questions the legitimacy of a child.

This is what happened to me after my youngest was born 19 years ago.

There are few wounds deeper than being told directly, that a beautiful newborn baby, created by two committed human beings, somehow “belongs to another man.”Because he looked like your other child.

What makes this kind of harm so lasting isn’t only the words themselves. The fact that we wanted to have this child even though we knew we hadnt been together very long. We fell in love the night we met.

It’s what followed that created such an ugly cloud and shifted me into a depression that just kept getting darker.

💫There wee no apologies.

💫No one stepping in saying this is uncalled for behavior

💫This family was laughing while I was mortified

💫No one pausing to see the pain it caused a mother, a marriage, or a child’s sense of belonging due to the shift in happiness.

🌻Fighting became the message then silence

And silence, over time, teaches a woman that her pain is inconvenient and that keeping the peace matters more than protecting her.

🦉Here is the lesson I’ve come to understand:

🌻When harm is minimized, the wound doesn’t heal it embeds.

☀️Many women are not “holding onto the past.”

🌻They are carrying what was never acknowledged.

🌻Healing, in these situations, doesn’t come from forcing forgiveness or pretending it didn’t matter.

🌻It comes from reclaiming self-trust, naming the truth, and refusing to abandon ourselves again just to stay accepted.🌻

If you’ve ever been made to feel like you didn’t have the right to hurt especially in a family system you are not weak, dramatic, or wrong.

You surely NEVER deserved to be spoken down to like that for NOTHING!

🌻Your pain is valid.

🌻Your memory is real.

🌻And your healing does not require permission.

🌻You telling YOUR story is YOUR right! 🌻

And YOUR right to HEAL!

🌻Healing is Empowering 🌻

🌻Sometimes the lesson isn’t about changing them.

🌻It’s about learning where we were asked to disappear and choosing ourselves instead.

❤️I am a mother in law and I have treated my son’s girlfriend with poor judgement and I have loved on her and apologized for my actions because that is what you do when you hurt someone.

12/18/2025

🌻Let’s talk about ☀️energy vampires🌻

We hear these phrases a lot

“They drain me.”

“They take my energy.”

“They’re an energy vampire.”

But here’s the reframe most people skip:

💫No one can take your energy unless your system is open to it. 💫

This isn’t about blame.

It’s about responsibility and self-leadership.

🌻When your nervous system is dysregulated

🌻When your boundaries are unclear

When you’ve been taught to over-give, over-explain, or over-perform for love…

Your energy leaks.

Not because someone is “bad,”
but because your body hasn’t learned yet how to stay resourced and protected.

Many people labeled as “energy vampires” are actually:
🌻dysregulated
🌻wounded
🌻unconscious of their own needs
🌻mirroring parts of us that haven’t healed yet

The real work isn’t avoiding people.

It’s learning how to hold your energy without collapsing or armoring.

🦉Protection isn’t walls.

🙌It’s regulation.

🙌It’s self-trust.

🙌It’s knowing when to engage, when to pause, and when to step back.

When you learn to protect your energy:

🌻you stop resenting others

🌻you stop blaming

🌻you stop leaking life force

And the dynamic changes☀️every time.

🌻Healing is fu***ng empowering🌻

And protecting your energy is an inside job.

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12/18/2025

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12/18/2025

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12/18/2025

Fixing vs. Healing

Why Healing Creates Lasting Change

Fixing comes from the belief that something is wrong with you.

Healing comes from the knowing that something happened to you.

That distinction changes everything.

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Fixing Energy

Fixing is urgent.
Fixing is tense.
Fixing says:
🌻I need to get rid of this.”
🌻This shouldn’t be happening.”
🌻I need to be better, stronger, quieter, faster.”

Fixing treats symptoms, not stories.
It tries to override the body, silence emotions, and control outcomes.

And the nervous system hears fixing as:

“You’re not safe the way you are.”

So the body resists.
The pattern returns.
The wound goes underground.

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Healing Energy

Healing is relational.
Healing is curious.
Healing says:
🌻Let me listen.”
🌻What are you protecting me from?”
🌻What do you need to feel safe enough to release?”

Healing includes the body instead of battling it.
It allows emotions to move instead of managing them away.
It creates safety first—then change happens naturally.

And the nervous system hears healing as:

“You’re allowed to be here.”

That’s when the body softens.
That’s when tears release without force.
That’s when symptoms no longer need to shout.

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Why You Want to Heal, Not Fix

You don’t fix trauma.
You don’t fix grief.
You don’t fix a nervous system that learned survival.

You heal by:
🌻Restoring safety
🌻Rebuilding trust with the body
🌻Letting emotions complete their cycle
🌻Honoring what kept you alive

Fixing asks, “How do I make this stop?”
Healing asks, “What is this asking me to feel, learn, or reclaim?”

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The Truth Most People Miss

Fixing is about control.
Healing is about connection.

And connection🌻not force🌻is what creates real transformation.

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Coaching Reflection Prompt

“Where in my life am I trying to fix myself instead of listening to myself?”

Let that answer guide you.

Because healing isn’t about becoming someone new
it’s about coming home to who you’ve always been. 🌻

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12/18/2025

Let Your Emotions Complete Their Cycle

Emotions are not problems.
They are biological signals designed to move through the body.

An emotion has a beginning, a middle, and an end.
When it’s allowed to complete that cycle, the nervous system returns to safety.

When it’s interrupted
🌻suppressed
🌻analyzed too quickly
🌻judged
🌻numbed
🌻or forced to “stay positive”

…the body never gets the message that it’s okay now.

So the emotion stays stored.
It shows up later as tension, anxiety, exhaustion, pain, or emotional flooding.

This isn’t weakness.
This is an incomplete stress response.

Your nervous system doesn’t need you to fix your emotions.
It needs you to feel them without danger.

Crying, shaking, sighing, warmth, heaviness, or even a wave of anger
these are signs the body is finishing something it couldn’t before.

When an emotion completes its cycle:
🌻your breath deepens
🌻your muscles soften
🌻your thoughts slow
🌻your body returns to regulation

That’s healing.

You don’t have to relive the story.
You don’t have to understand everything.
You don’t have to make it mean something right away.

You just have to let it move.

This is how the nervous system learns:
“I can feel… and I am still safe.”

And over time, the body stops holding on so tightly.

✨ Reflection:
What emotion have I been interrupting instead of allowing to finish?

Healing happens when the body is finally allowed to complete what it started.

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