11/20/2025
Regulation isn’t just about calming down — it’s about giving your nervous system what it needs to feel safe.
One of the most powerful tools we have for this is proprioceptive input also known as “heavy work.”
When we push, pull, carry, squeeze, lift, stretch, or use resistance, we send strong messages to the brain that say:
“I’m grounded. I’m safe. I’m here.”
And when we pair heavy work with intentional breathing?
Magic for the nervous system.
💛 Muscles engage → body gets feedback
💛 Breath slows → vagus nerve activates
💛 Stress response lowers → clarity and emotional control return
The best part?
You can weave this into so many environments no fancy setup required:
Classroom: chair push-ups, wall pushes, squeezing a therapy ball, carrying books
Workplace: isometric holds, slow wall sits, pulling resistance bands, deep core breathing
Sauna: towel wringing, slow stretching, “hawk hug,” butterfly taps, paired with long exhales
Home: vacuuming, pushing laundry baskets, weighted blankets, slow hugs, animal walks with kids
This isn’t just movement — it’s nervous system support.
When your body gets the input it needs, emotional regulation becomes more accessible.
Sometimes the fastest way to calm the mind…
…is through the muscles.
If no one has told you lately:
You’re allowed to regulate in whatever ways help you feel safe not just quiet, still, or “polite.”
Movement is coping.
Heavy work is emotional regulation.
Breath + muscle engagement is healing.
Which “heavy work” skill do you want to try this week?
Drop it below , I’d love to cheer you on.