10/05/2025
There’s loss after loss - and this is an amazing perspective spoken much more eloquently than I put it 😂
We don’t ask for loss or the additional challenges that come with it. No one asks for any of the challenges they face.
It’s how you respond!
Take a moment to consider this as you’re hurting and healing, and remember that you’re not alone! It’s ok to let new people in… trust yourself to know who belongs in your world.
Sending all of the hugs ❤️
I am so thankful for the people who walked out of my life at my lowest. For the people who didn't show up. For the people who didn't reach out. For the people who let me show up for them but didn't show up for me.... Because I was able to see not only who they really were but also who I was without them. I needed that. Those experiences, though painful, taught me invaluable lessons about resilience, self-worth, and the importance of surrounding myself with people who truly care.
In the absence of those who didn't show up, I discovered my own strength and capacity for self-love. I learned to rely on myself, to trust my instincts, and to prioritize my own needs. This journey of self-discovery wasn't easy, but it was necessary for my growth and healing.
The people who walked away revealed their true character, and in doing so, they gave me the gift of clarity. I no longer had to wonder about their intentions or invest emotional energy into relationships that weren't serving me. Instead, I could focus on nurturing connections with people who genuinely cared about my well-being.
Those experiences also taught me the importance of setting boundaries and being discerning about the company I keep. I learned to recognize the signs of toxic relationships and to prioritize my own emotional safety. By doing so, I've created space for healthier, more fulfilling connections that uplift and support me.
In the end, I'm grateful for the lessons learned and the growth that came from those challenging experiences. I've emerged stronger, wiser, and more compassionate, with a deeper understanding of myself and what I deserve in relationships.