04/13/2026
𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗶𝗿𝘁𝗵𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴.
I am still sitting with the beauty of the “Healing Happens in Connection” event I held last Saturday. Brave and incredible women joined me for a full day of looking inward, befriending our nervous systems, and honoring the parts of ourselves that have been carrying the load for so long.
We spent the day moving out of the “busy mind” and into the wisdom of the body. The room was filled with such profound vulnerability and grace.
We also dove into one of the most vital tools I teach: The difference between speaking FROM a part and speaking FOR a part.
When we speak from a part, we are blended—we are the anger, we are the anxiety, and we move into reaction. But 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘄𝗲 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁—inviting it to sit in the room with us rather than driving the bus—everything shifts. 𝗪𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗺 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗰𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿.
We talked about how much energy it takes to stay grounded when we encounter others who are speaking from their own reactive parts.
It was an “aha!” moment for the group: realizing that 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗲 isn’t about shutting others out; it’s about maintaining the boundary between our own selves and the parts that get triggered by the world around us.
I am so deeply proud of the courage in the room on Saturday.
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