01/28/2026
In moving beyond the easy right–wrong binary, it matters to say this: Alex’s masculinity was expressed through using his strength and power in the service of others.
As an ICU nurse, he cared for and honored our military veterans at their most vulnerable. As a citizen in Minneapolis, he felt called to practice what he described as neighborism—showing up, engaging, and taking responsibility for the well-being of others.
He died as he lived: sacrificing himself to protect, empower, and help others. That is not weakness. That is strength, courage, and power guided by masculine purpose.
MAGA is obsessed with "masculinity" — Pretti showed them what it really looks like.