12/10/2021
I continue to think more and more about how we heal. After years of being a mental health therapist and more importantly years of being a human, I have learned there is no one recipe for healing/mending/wellness/self-growth. While I am so very passionate about mental health therapy and what it can give people, I do not feel it is the only thing out there that supports healing. I feel healing can happen in healthy relationships where we get to practice boundaries, social connection, and being our authentic self. Healing can happen though self-education, through reading about what helps our body/mind function well, gaining understanding on how trauma or adverse events affect the mind/body. Healing can happen through play, talks, laughs, movement, singing, music, podcasts, self-care activities, or maybe even going to a safe space with yourself and letting out a scream, or scream/sing a song in your car even. Our recipe for healing and wellness will vary as we grow, enter different chapters, and as life gives us whatever it’s going to give us. Maybe we will go back to an old recipe that serves us well or maybe we will create a new one. Maybe one day it calls for therapy and the next a date with a friend or time to just be quiet with yourself and take a walk. Tune in to what recipe makes sense. Part of the healing is learning to trust in your own ability to in fact heal, trusting you will know what goes into your recipe. Take good care!!