07/13/2025
Been meaning to share these photos from Matthew’s final week of chemo, but time kept getting away from me!
Matthew officially finished chemo on June 27th, and it truly was one of the best days of our lives. His mom and sister came to sit with him during treatment and he rang the bell to mark the end of treatment. My mom drove over three hours just to be there for that moment. Afterward, we did a drive by past our workplace, Smart Choice, where our amazing coworkers were outside wearing their Mattman shirts, cheering him on. When we got home, we found that my sister-in-law Christina had broken in to decorate the house with balloons, banners, streamers, candy, and even a “whimsical puke bucket” 😂 The whole day was filled with so much love, support, and celebration. It’s a memory we’ll never forget!
As special as that day was, chemo doesn’t stop affecting you when treatment ends, and the repercussions hit him hard. I shared about how we had that scary night where he passed out in the kitchen the day after he finished. In the days following that, Matthew was throwing up daily, sometimes multiple times a day, and when he wasn’t sick, he was battling constant nausea and exhaustion. We tried everything to get ahead of it, but this final round really took a toll. He went in to get fluids at the oncology office twice that week, which helped a bit.
By July 4th, he started to feel somewhat more like himself again, but it’s been a rollercoaster. Some days he wakes up feeling normal, only to be hit with sudden waves of nausea. He’s slowly improving, but still tires easily and has to take it things slow to avoid getting sick.
He heads back to work tomorrow, which feels bittersweet. I’m glad he’ll regain some normalcy, but it’s hard not to feel anxious about it. I just want him to be okay and not push himself too hard.
His next scan is scheduled for August 6th. We’re trying to stay positive, but the scanxiety is very real. Matthew is hyper aware of every part of his body, which can make waiting for the next scan a little more stressful.
There’s still a journey ahead as we figure out what our new normal looks like. This experience has changed us both. Please continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers in these coming weeks. We’re so grateful for all the love and support 💜