05/24/2026
There is a type of grief many women carry that rarely gets named.
Not grief from death.
Not grief from divorce.
Not grief from a breakup everyone can point to and understand.
But grief from abandoning yourself.
The dreams made smaller.
The voice softened.
The desires buried beneath responsibility.
The identity sacrificed for survival, belonging, relationships, careers, caregiving, or expectations.
Yesterday’s tea gathering for women veterans unexpectedly became a conversation about identity, guilt, conditioned thinking, inherited fear, and the quiet ways women disconnect from themselves long before they realize it.
One question stayed in the room:
Who are you if you are no longer only the roles you play?
Our newest blog explores:
• abandonment of self
• conditioned fear
• guilt and survival
• self-doubt vs. doubt of self
• identity beyond usefulness
• grief that has nothing to do with death
Read here:
https://progressingthroughtherapy.com/the-grief-of-abandoning-yourself/