11/19/2025
Every month for the past two years, our residents have looked forward to one special afternoon: crafting day with volunteer Kathy Graves.
What started as a simple idea has become a beloved tradition. Kathy arrives with bags full of treasures—little finds from thrift stores, garage sales, and anywhere she can spot a good deal—and somehow turns a pile of “random stuff” into beautiful projects and even better memories.
Any resident is welcome, and over time a faithful group has formed. They don’t just craft—they laugh together, share stories, sing old songs, and talk about memories that still warm their hearts. More than one resident has said the best part isn’t the finished craft at all… it’s the joy of creating side by side.
For Kathy, the joy runs even deeper. Her mom, Marilyn Swallow, is one of the crafters, and every session becomes a mother–daughter moment. The week before each gathering, the two of them “test-run” the project so Marilyn knows the steps and can help her friends when the big day comes. Seeing her mom smile and enjoy every minute—that’s Kathy’s favorite part.
Crafting has always been in Kathy’s bones, especially beadwork. She once spent over 100 hours hand-beading a clutch for her niece’s wedding—a true labor of love that she talks about with pride.
This month’s project turned old Christmas tins into something new and festive. While they worked, the group shared their favorite Thanksgiving memories, laughed, reminisced, and—without even realizing it—strengthened the friendships that make BRC feel like family.
One resident summed up Kathy perfectly:
“I love watching her dance around with excitement while she teaches us. She’s just so happy to be here.”
And Kathy hopes she isn’t the last. She would love to see others share their gifts and passions with our residents—especially activities for the fellows. Whether someone enjoys singing, building, leading a small study, or even watching sports, she says there’s room for everyone. It doesn’t take much to come in once a month, and the joy she’s received in return has been nothing short of exponential.
Thank you, Kathy, for reminding us what a simple act of sharing can do.