03/12/2026
👋🏽 my lovely friends! Thought I’d stop being a stranger, drop in and make a short story long:
Socials stopped being fun. It used to be SO fun for this geriatric millennial whose late adolescent life was sparked with joy when the explosion of online interaction was actually…joyful.
In the last few months, I found myself in a place where I didn’t want to consume, be consumed or share because of how…unsafe it began to feel.
So I stepped back for a bit to solve my existential crisis with social media.
I’m getting older, I get it. But I missed how socials used to be in the 2005-2015 era. When people would pour their hearts out in long captions without a carousel trying to sell the latest fitness gospel. Before reels and trending content became the driver of the creator. When tagging my IRL friends in albums was more important than gaining followers.
I realized - I do want to be here but I want it to be fun again!
And fun for me, involves sharing without an underlying purpose.
When I created this account it was for fitness FUN. I was a Mom with 4 young kids who loved nutrition science, working out, women’s health and sharing the journey. This is AUTHENTICALLY ME.
I wasn’t a nutrition coach or a PT yet. I am also not genetically entrepreneurial.
When I tried to follow the social media marketing crowd, it made me physically ill to show up. I follow a handful of beloved coaches who are truly authentic and I’m thankful for their presence but it is not an area that I’m able to show up in. I’m not sure how to reconcile this AND build online clients but just because I’m unwilling to not suck at social media marketing - I’m also not giving up my passion to share and help.
Helping women as a nutrition coach and PT is important to me and I am naturally inclined to be an encourager, supporter and educator… I won’t let the process rob me of certain joys.
It’s going to be what I make of it.
From here on out, I’m on socials for fun, friendship, sharing and encouraging.
This is how I can show up authentically and being authentic is the ONLY place I can start in order to hopefully help, be relatable and at the very least, entertain.
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