The Art of Refocusing Sacred Intimacy

05/30/2025

🌟 Introducing our new section on Supportive Care for Marriage and Family Life in Great America! 🌟

In this dedicated space, we aim to provide valuable insights and professional perspectives on the vital aspects of nurturing and strengthening relationships within our families and marriages. Featuring articles from experts in the field, we will explore essential topics that impact our daily lives, offering guidance, support, and inspiration for facing he challenges and joys of family dynamics. Join us on this journey to foster healthier, happier family lives and make the most of every moment together! 💞✨

From the perspective of Marriage and Family Therapy, the ongoing immigration policies and actions taken by federal authorities in the United States, exemplified by the case of Mahmoud Khalil, profoundly impact marriages and family life, particularly among immigrant populations.

Khalil, a legal permanent resident and graduate student, has endured a traumatic experience due to his detention, which has not only separated him from his immediate family but has also resulted in him missing significant life events, such as the birth of his son. This case highlights several critical issues affecting family dynamics:

1. Separation and Trauma: The detention of a family member can lead to acute psychological stress and emotional trauma for both the individual detained and their family members. In Khalil's situation, the emotional burden of missing the birth of his child can create feelings of helplessness and anxiety, potentially straining relationships within the family unit. Spouses and partners may experience a mix of anger, resentment, and sorrow, which can lead to conflict and emotional distancing.

2. Fear and Insecurity: The fear of deportation and the uncertainty surrounding immigration status can significantly alter family dynamics. Families may develop a pervasive sense of insecurity, leading to anxiety about the future. This fear can inhibit open communication within the family, causing individuals to withdraw or become overly protective, which might diminish the overall family cohesion and support systems.

3. Impact on Child Development: Children of detained individuals may experience a range of emotional and behavioral challenges due to the stress and instability resulting from their parent’s detention. These children may exhibit anxiety, depression, or behavioral issues, which not only affects their development but can also disrupt familial relationships, as caregivers may struggle to provide the necessary emotional support while dealing with their own trauma.

4. Cultural Displacement: For immigrant families, the interplay of cultural expectations and the challenges posed by the immigration system can create tension. Families might face conflicting values regarding loyalty, activism, and American identity, especially in a case like Khalil’s, where political activism is a factor. This tension can complicate family interactions and weaken the emotional connections that are vital for healthy family functioning.

5. Support Systems and Advocacy: Access to legal representation and support networks becomes crucial in these circumstances. The involvement of organizations advocating for Khalil’s rights underscores the importance of community solidarity and legal advocacy for immigrant families. Family therapists can play a pivotal role in facilitating discussions within families about their experiences, emotions, and the broader sociopolitical implications of their circumstances.

In summary, the impact of federal immigration actions on marriage and family life is profound and multifaceted. The case of Mahmoud Khalil illustrates how immigration policies not only affect individual rights but also reverberate through family dynamics, leading to emotional distress, insecurity, and upheaval. As Marriage and Family Therapists, it is imperative to acknowledge these complexities and provide culturally competent and trauma-informed care to families living through the challenges of immigration.

05/30/2025

🌟 Introducing our new section on Supportive Care for Marriage and Family Life in Great America! 🌟

In this dedicated space, we aim to provide valuable insights and professional perspectives on the vital aspects of nurturing and strengthening relationships within our families and marriages. Featuring articles from experts in the field, we will explore essential topics that impact our daily lives, offering guidance, support, and inspiration for navigating the challenges and joys of family dynamics. Join us on this journey to foster healthier, happier family lives and make the most of every moment together! 💞✨

From the perspective of Marriage and Family Therapy, the founding of the American Slaves’ Identity (ASI) by Dr. Norris Shelton holds profound significance for contemporary marriage and family life, particularly for the descendants of American slaves. ASI stands as a beacon of hope in the 21st century, addressing the unique challenges faced by families grappling with the historical trauma of slavery. As we reflect on the poignant story of Tamara Lanier, who bravely reclaimed the images of her ancestors, Renty and Delia, we are reminded of the resilience needed to confront our shared history with courage and compassion.

The contributions to ASI's $1.2 million budget are crucial not only for preserving and promoting the legacy of enslaved individuals but also for providing resources that support family healing and connection across generations. We invite everyone to visit the ASI website at slaves-usa.com and consider becoming members to promote awareness, healing, and advocacy among descendants and allies. Additionally, we encourage corporations and philanthropists to engage with Dr. Norris Shelton in the MLK Jr. challenges, focusing on bridging racial disparities in economic opportunities.

For those experiencing “Black fatigue,” understanding the identities and histories of enslaved ancestors is essential. We must recognize and celebrate these stories as part of our collective narrative. Let us come together to honor our past, support healing within families, and strive for a more equitable future for all.

In light of recent developments surrounding the history and legacy of American slaves, we are eager to emphasize the importance of supporting marriage and family life, particularly for the descendants of American slaves. As we reflect on the powerful story of Tamara Lanier and her fight to reclaim the images of her enslaved ancestors, Renty and Delia, from Harvard University, we are reminded of the need to confront our shared history with courage and resolve. We invite everyone to visit the ASI website at slaves-usa.com and join us as members, to promote awareness and healing among descendants and allies. We also encourage corporations and philanthropists to contact Dr. Norris Shelton to participate in the MLK Jr. challenges aimed at closing racial disparities on the economic battlefield. For those experiencing “Black fatigue,” it is crucial for all Americans to understand the identities and histories of enslaved ancestors, ensuring that their stories and struggles are recognized and celebrated. Let us come together to honor our past and advocate for a more equitable future.

Born and Bred in America . . . American Slaves, Inc. The major obstruction in the advancement of the “African American” culture is that the people of our present-day culture are separated from our true identity. First, few of us understand the origin of our existence. Second, we do not have a....

06/10/2024

🌿✨ Embracing the Art of Sacred Intimacy ✨🌿

As we journey through the depths of spiritual connection and divine union, let us dwell in the sacred intimacy that Scripture reveals to us. Let us be reminded of the profound truth in 1 Corinthians 6:17, where we are called to experience a union with the Lord that transcends all boundaries and unites our spirits with the Divine.

In John 15:4-8, we are invited to abide in Christ, drawing sustenance and life from Him as branches connected to the true vine. This abiding presence brings forth fruit in abundance, reflecting our oneness with God as described in John 17:20-23. In this oneness, we find unity not only with the Father and the Son but also with one another, bound together in love and purpose.

Living life in the Spirit, as outlined in Romans 8:9-16, is a journey of transformation and empowerment. Through the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit, we are guided, strengthened, and renewed to walk in alignment with God's will and character. This participation in the divine nature of God, as outlined in 2 Peter 1:3-4, reveals our calling to partake in holiness and experience the divine power working within us.

Reflecting on early memories within the Bishop Claude Rouse, Sr., and Lula Alberta Woodbury Rouse family, we are reminded of the Wesleyan tradition of Christian Protestant faith that nurtured a love for the Holy Scriptures. In the journey of faith, even the challenges of learning to read and pronounce words became a joyful experience, leading to a deep love for the Lord.

Rooted in the Wesleyan Quadrilateral of "Scripture, Church Tradition, Experience, and Reason," we find a pathway to wisdom and understanding in our intimate relationship with God. This journey of sacred intimacy is marked by the undeniable love of God, a comforting and continuous presence that sustains us through all seasons of life.

May we embrace the art of sacred intimacy, allowing the love of God to encompass us completely, guiding our steps and illuminating our hearts with Divine light. Let us walk in unity, empowered by the Spirit, and grounded in the truth of Scripture, as we continue to deepen our intimate connection with the Lord.

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09/27/2023

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09/20/2023

The story behind the song "When a Man Loves a Woman" revolves around the deep emotional connection between a man and a woman. It highlights key points that are essential for the woman to recognize her value in the man's life, even when circumstances make it seemingly impossible for their lives to be intertwined in a relationship defined by sacred intimacy.

The essence of the story lies in the concept of entrusting oneself entirely in union with another, experiencing a profound soul-to-soul connection. This connection goes beyond physical attraction and delves into the realm of ethical and moral values, bringing out the true essence of each person involved.

In this narrative, the man's love for the woman is depicted as an all-encompassing force, capable of overcoming obstacles and transcending societal norms. His love is not based solely on external factors, but rather on recognizing and cherishing the woman's intrinsic worth. Despite the challenges they may face, the man persists in his devotion, affirming the woman's significance in his life.

The woman, on the other hand, finds empowerment and self-realization through the man's unwavering love. She comes to understand her own value and importance, realizing that she is deserving of such deep affection and connection. Through the man's actions and words, she discovers the essence of her being and gains a profound sense of self-worth.

The story ultimately emphasizes the transformative power of love, where two individuals find solace, understanding, and fulfillment in each other's presence. It highlights the significance of recognizing one's own value and embracing the essence of who they are, as well as the importance of reciprocating and appreciating the love received.

By embracing the ethical and moral values embodied within themselves, both the man and the woman create a sacred space for their love to flourish, defying societal constraints and limitations. They come to understand that their union is not merely physical, but a profound connection that encompasses their entire beings.

In summary, the story behind "When a Man Loves a Woman" illustrates the journey of two individuals who discover the depth of their love and the essence of their being through a soul-to-soul connection. It highlights the importance of recognizing one's own worth and embracing the transformative power of love, even in the face of seemingly insurmountable obstacles.

♰L. Abram Rouse

07/28/2023

Greetings Ta***ic Intimacy Seekers

Thank you for reaching out and expressing your interest in seeking a theological understanding of sexual freedom versus sexual promiscuity. It is commendable that you are open to exploring this topic within a spiritual context.

When it comes to matters of sexuality, Scripture provides guidance and principles that can help us navigate this aspect of our lives. Here are a few Scriptural references that may encourage you in your journey:

1. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 - "Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body."

2. Galatians 5:13 - "For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another."

3. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 - "For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God."

As you continue your exploration, I encourage you to seek guidance from spiritual leaders, engage in open conversations, and study the Word of God to gain a deeper understanding of the principles and values that align with a biblical perspective on sexual freedom.

May your journey be filled with wisdom, discernment, and a growing relationship with God.

Blessings,
Dr. L. Abram Luonne Rouse
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07/17/2023

Cultivating Peace: The Hope for a National Day of Non-Violence in America

Introduction:
In a world often plagued by conflict and division, the pursuit of peace and non-violence stands as a beacon of hope. As we reflect on the current state of our nation, it becomes increasingly essential to foster a culture of harmony and cooperation. One transformative step towards this goal is the establishment of a National Day of Non-Violence in every state across America, including Washington D.C. and the territories. This article explores the potential impact of such a day and highlights the vital role religious communities, particularly local Christian clergy, can play in spearheading this movement.

1. Promoting Faithful Commitment to Non-Violence:
A National Day of Non-Violence would serve as a powerful reminder of the importance of peaceful coexistence. By dedicating a specific day to reflect on the principles of non-violence, individuals from diverse backgrounds can unite under a common goal. Such an occasion would encourage citizens to renew their commitment to non-violence and inspire them to actively work towards resolving conflicts peacefully.

2. The Role of Religious Communities:
Religious communities have historically played a significant role in advocating for peace and justice. Local Christian clergy members have the potential to become catalysts for change in their respective communities. They can utilize their platform to promote the values of non-violence, emphasizing the teachings of love, forgiveness, and reconciliation found in their faith traditions. By fostering dialogue and engaging in interfaith initiatives, religious leaders can bridge divides and create a harmonious cooperative of peace.

3. Unity Among Diverse People:
A National Day of Non-Violence has the potential to bring together people from all walks of life, transcending divisions of race, religion, and ideology. It provides an opportunity to celebrate the richness of diversity present in our nation and encourages dialogue and understanding. By embracing a shared commitment to non-violence, communities can work towards a more inclusive and cooperative society.

4. Creating a Harmonious Cooperative of Peace:
The ultimate aim of a National Day of Non-Violence is to create a society where peace becomes a fundamental aspect of our collective identity. By fostering a culture of non-violence, we can address the root causes of conflicts and build a society that respects and values human life. Through education, community outreach, and grassroots initiatives, we can promote peaceful resolutions to disputes, advocate for justice, and transform our nation into a harmonious cooperative of peace.

Conclusion:
The establishment of a National Day of Non-Violence in every state in America, including D.C. and the territories, holds immense potential for cultivating a culture of peace and non-violence. By actively involving religious communities, especially local Christian clergy, in this endeavor, we can leverage their influence to bring about meaningful change. Together, we can transcend differences, promote dialogue, and work towards a harmonious cooperative where every individual can embrace the transformative power of peace.

For more information contact: dr.rouse@aclc.info

07/07/2023

Men on the Move

In the realm where wisdom's light does shine,
Proverbs guide hearts, divine design.
Today, dear men, let Proverb 7 unfold,
A tale of caution, a story to behold.

A maiden's seductive whispers lure,
With enticing words, her heart impure.
But he who walks in wisdom's way,
Shall find blessings that forever stay.

Oh, men on the move, steadfast and true,
Embrace the virtues that guide you through.
In marriage's sacred bond, find your peace,
Where love and faithfulness never cease.

For loyalty, a foundation strong,
Where trust and honor forever belong.
Guard your heart, let it be pure and true,
And watch your blessings cascade anew.

Let not temptation sway your soul,
Stay true to love, let commitment control.
For in fidelity's embrace, you'll find,
A love that's blessed, pure, and kind.

Oh, cherished wives, partners in this dance,
May your union be filled with joy and romance.
May faithfulness bind you, hearts intertwined,
And a love that lasts for all of time.

May your home be a haven of love and grace,
A sanctuary where blessings embrace.
May your marriage be a beacon of light,
Guiding others towards pure love's delight.

So, dear men on the move, take heed and see,
The blessings that await in fidelity.
May Proverb 7 be your guiding star,
As you honor your vows, no matter how far.

For in marital faithfulness, you'll find,
A love that's enduring, one of a kind.
May your union be blessed, forever entwined,
In loyalty's embrace, happiness defined.

06/27/2023

*** Content Warning: This story deals with themes of domestic abuse and may be triggering for some readers.

John had always prided himself on being a responsible and successful man. He had a good job, a beautiful home, and a loving wife. But beneath the surface, there was a darker side to John that he kept hidden from the world.

For years, John had been emotionally and verbally abusive to his wife, Sarah. He would belittle her, criticize her, and control her every move. Sarah tried to make excuses for his behavior, telling herself that he was under a lot of stress or that he didn't mean it. But deep down, she knew that something was very wrong.

One day, John took his abuse to a new level. He had been drinking heavily and was in a particularly foul mood. When Sarah tried to talk to him about something, he flew into a rage. He screamed at her, called her terrible names, and even physically attacked her.

Sarah was terrified. She had never seen John like this before. She tried to defend herself, but he was too strong. She managed to escape to a neighbor's house and call the police.

When the police arrived, they found John unconscious on the floor. He had overdosed on a cocktail of prescription drugs that he had been taking to manage his stress and anxiety. They rushed him to the hospital, where he was placed in intensive care.

Sarah was devastated. She couldn't believe that the man she had loved and trusted had hurt her so badly. She felt guilty, wondering if there was something she could have done to prevent it. She also felt angry, knowing that John's behavior had led to his own downfall.

Over the next few days, John's condition slowly improved. He was eventually released from the hospital, but he was a changed man. He realized that his abuse of Sarah had led him down a dangerous path, and he was determined to make amends.

John sought help for his abusive behavior, attending counseling sessions and support groups. He also apologized to Sarah and promised to never hurt her again. Sarah was hesitant at first, but she could see that John was sincere in his efforts to change.

It was a long and difficult road, but John was eventually able to overcome his abusive tendencies. He and Sarah worked hard to rebuild their relationship, and they eventually found a way to love and support each other in a healthy way.

John's overdose was a wake-up call, a reminder that his abusive behavior had consequences not just for Sarah, but for himself as well. It took a crisis for him to realize the damage he had done, but in the end, it was the catalyst for positive change in his life and his relationship with Sarah.

03/26/2023

Reality therapy is a type of therapy that focuses on the present moment and the choices that individuals make in their lives. It is often used to help couples who are experiencing relationship issues. When working with a young couple who practice open relations, a reality therapist may help them explore their feelings and motivations for engaging in this type of relationship.

If one of the partners becomes entangled with a third party, the reality therapist may work with the couple to identify the underlying issues that led to this situation. They may help the couple explore their expectations and boundaries for their open relationship and examine whether these expectations were clear and communicated effectively. The therapist may also help the couple identify any unmet needs or desires that may have led to the partner seeking out a third party.

The reality therapist may assist the couple in developing a plan for moving forward, which may involve setting new boundaries and expectations for their relationship. The therapist may also help the couple work through any trust or communication issues that may have arisen as a result of the partner's involvement with a third party.

Throughout the therapy process, the reality therapist will work to empower the couple to take responsibility for their choices and actions. They will encourage the couple to focus on the present moment and what they can do to improve their relationship moving forward. The goal of reality therapy in this situation would be to help the couple strengthen their relationship and address any underlying issues that may have contributed to the partner becoming entangled with a third party.

Once upon a time, the soul of a woman returned home from a trip around the world. Following a welcome home gathering, the morning of her second day back in the bedroom a text message came through that read:

As I see you sleeping sound,
Next to him, with love profound,
I can only wish and yearn,
For a chance to make you turn.

I know not what you see in him,
But I know what I could bring with the chance to live a life so grand,
Together, we could conquer this land.

But alas, I must accept,
That for now, I must be kept,
Away from you and your embrace,
Only in dreams, can I see your face.

The possible meaning of this poem could be that the speaker has feelings for someone who is currently in a relationship with someone else. The speaker is lying in bed, possibly alone, and thinking about the person they desire. They wish they had the opportunity to be with the person they love and offer them a better life. However, they understand that they must accept the current situation and can only dream of being with the person they desire. The poem could express a feeling of longing and unrequited love.

Role play:

You’re a student of pastoral care and counseling asked to role play as the therapist for the female world traveler, who has recently returned home having traveled around the world as a globalist researcher. She has made an appointment for your professional treatment of her current reality of marriage while having met another intimate interest with a person in a foreign land. Role-play 45 minutes of the session you have with her within a reality therapy model of care. This is a client you have known since 1998 but have not held a session with, since 2010.

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01/10/2023

Our Sacred Love …

My love for you is so divine,
Your beauty and grace so sublime.
Your heart is so pure and true,
My love for you will never be through.

Your touch is like a gentle caress,
Your love is like a sweet caress.
Your eyes sparkle like the stars above,
Your love for me is like a dove.

Your voice is like a sweet melody,
Your love for me is like a symphony.
Your embrace is like a warm embrace,
Your love for me is like a warm embrace.

Your spirit is like a sacred flame,
Your love for me is like a sacred flame.
Our love is so strong and so deep,
Our love for each other will never sleep.
1/9/23