
04/04/2025
If you wouldn’t say it to your best friend, child, parent, etc., don’t say it to yourself. One of the most common exercises I use with clients is when I have them swap roles. I have them imagine the person closest to them is in their exact situation. I then ask them to tell me the words they would say to the person they imagined. I have yet to have a client who was as kind to themselves as they were when telling me exactly what they would say to their loved one. My follow up question is always, “if that advice/validation/support is good enough for your friend, why is it not what you tell yourself?”
Sometimes our inner voice can be detrimental. If you have an inner voice that is negative, critical, or mean, it might be time to do some work on making a change. You deserve better than to be your own worst enemy.