Badger Funeral Home of Groton, Massachusetts

07/17/2025

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Daniel Anthony O’Connor III, of Groton, Massachusetts, passed away on July 2, 2025, at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston. He was 74.

Born in Troy, New York in 1951, Daniel led an extraordinary life filled with devotion to his work, his hobbies, and above all, his family. He is survived by his beloved wife of 49 years, Helen Kane O’Connor; his children—Annie and her husband Anthony Fiandaca of Bolton, Anthony and his wife Jillian of Newton, and Nicholas and his wife Margret of Lunenburg; his grandchildren—Milo, Nico, Ella, Kieran, John, Daniel, and Mae. He also leaves behind his mother Margaret O’Connor of Troy, NY; siblings—John (Sue) of Stow, MA; Joe (Constance) of Woodbridge, Connecticut; Mike (Lori) of Manteo, NC; and Patricia of Troy, NY; as well as many nieces and nephews, brother and sisters in-law and lifelong friends.

Daniel earned a BA in electrical engineering from Clarkson University, followed by an MS and PhD in systems science and mathematics from Washington University. He spent over four decades at MIT Lincoln Laboratory, where he specialized in air, missile, and maritime defense strategy—making profound contributions to national security.

A man of many passions, Daniel was an avid sailor of his sailboat "The Folly V", a lifelong hockey player, and an enthusiastic student of history, education, and music. His adventurous spirit led him and Helen from Nantucket, MA, where they met, to Wellfleet, Cape Cod—where they married in 1976—to Potsdam, NY; St. Louis, MO; Townsend, MA; the Kwajalein Atoll in the Marshall Islands; and finally, their cherished home in Groton.

Daniel will be remembered for his kindness, his generosity, his taste for adventure, and his love of family.

The O’Connor family wishes to extend heartfelt thanks to the nurses, doctors, and support staff of Lunder 10 at Massachusetts General Hospital for their exceptional care.

A funeral mass for Daniel will be held on Thursday, July 31 at 1 PM at Saint James Parish, 13 St. James Ave., West Groton, MA. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Mass General Hospital Cancer Center or a blood donation to the American Red Cross.

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07/17/2025

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It is with deep love and sorrow, we share the passing of our dad, Alford Dyson Jr. — a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and friend — who left us peacefully at the age of 88.

Alford shared 60 wonderful years of marriage with his beloved wife, Edda, whom he lovingly called “Sweetie.” Together, they built a life filled with love, laughter, and countless adventures.

He was a proud father to Todd Dyson and Jenepher Spencer, and nothing brought him greater joy than being “Pop Pop” to his cherished grandchildren, Kylie and Chase Spencer.

Alford spent much of his career at MIT, where he found purpose, respect, and lifelong friendships. A lifelong learner and educator, he was deeply passionate about creating new ways to engage students and expand minds. His work in education reflected his belief in the power of knowledge to open doors and shape lives.

An avid writer and photographer, Alford captured life’s moments through thoughtful stories and beautiful photo collages — especially from travels to South Africa and Scotland with Edda.

He will be remembered for his warmth, wit, generosity, and unwavering love for his family. His legacy lives on in his children, grandchildren, and the many lives he touched, guided, and helped shape along the way.

We will be honoring Alford’s life in a private gathering with those he held dearest. The family deeply appreciates your love and support.

Services will be Private.

Arrangements under the care of the Badger Funeral Home, 45 School St., Groton, MA. 978-486-3709, www.badgerfuneral.com

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07/04/2025

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07/02/2025

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Robert “Bob” Shaw, Jr. died peacefully in Groton, Massachusetts, on June 27, 2025, just two days short of his 88th birthday.

The son of the late Esther (Macneir) Shaw and Robert Shaw, Sr., Bob was a one-of-a-kind character who spoke in a vernacular limited to a population of one (a winnebago was a “moose-of-a-hog,” his daughters were either “champions” or “chimpanzees,” doing poorly was “dogging it”). In his youth, Bob teased, tormented, and loved his younger sisters Deborah Stober and Ellen Young. His ebullient laugh and infectious sense of humor endeared him to many: Bob was a beloved friend to several life-long groups, from junior high in Cheltenham, Pennsylvania, to college, to his church friends in Westford, and finally his chair-yoga crew at RiverCourt Residences in Groton.

An engineer, Bob loved building things, such as a fancy doll house, a swingset and slide for his grandchildren, and bookcases for his dream house in Groton. He built a good career for himself, too. After graduating second in his Mechanical Engineering major from Cornell University’s College of Engineering and receiving a master’s degree in mechanical engineering from MIT, he was hired by the Avco Corporation, where he helped build the heat shields for the Apollo 13 mission. For over 35 years, he worked for CR Bard, the maker of medical implements. For three years in the 1980s, Bob, as vice president of CR Bard, oversaw the entire construction of a factory in Puerto Rico from its inception to its completion.

Outside of his professional endeavors, Bob worked to build a better world through volunteerism. Each week, he cleared walking trails in Westford; he daily tracked his beloved birds in his backyard for Cornell’s Lab of Ornithology. For the last two decades of his life, he actively served the First Parish Church on many committees and was treasurer for three years. For three decades before that, he spent countless hours volunteering for St. Mark’s Church, tending to the Memorial Garden, trimming trees, serving as Senior Warden, and various other positions, both official and unofficial. For many years, Bob made and served salad with others from St. Mark's each month for St. Paul’s Soup Kitchen in Lowell.

Going even further afield in his volunteerism, Bob would drive weekly to the Clarence R. Edwards Middle School in Charleston to help prepare the Chinese immigrant student body for the Science MCAS exam. He excitedly brought in nuts, bolts, and screwdrivers, so the students could truly understand both the tools and the concepts in the test questions.

However, the best thing that Bob built was a life with Elizabeth “Beth” (Needham) Shaw, whom he met on a blind date in 1964 when she was a young nurse at Mass General Hospital. In their later years, he and she enjoyed traveling from France to Finland, Alaska to Kenya. Bob was extremely proud of his three daughters. He supported the LGBTQ+ community, leading a PFLAG chapter in honor of Jordana and her wife Lisa Francine; during the peak of the pandemic, he and Rebecca met at Dunkin’s, he in his driver’s seat, she in her passenger seat, connecting in person during the free half-hour in her hybrid teaching schedule; with Jessica and her husband Joel Raha, he shared his love of Cornell, 40 years apart in their graduating classes. For any and all family gatherings, he would bake bountiful breakfasts for his six grandchildren. His love language was through acts of service, and his service shows how greatly he loved.

Bob Shaw’s Memorial Service will be on Saturday, August 9, 2025, at 10:00 am, at the First Parish Church, 48 Main Street, Westford, Massachusetts, with a light luncheon to follow.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to:

St. Paul’s Soup Kitchen: https://stpaulssoupkitchen.org/

Cornell Lab of Ornithology: https://www.birds.cornell.edu/home/

Greater Boston PFLAG: https://www.gbpflag.org/

Or perform your own act of service.

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06/26/2025

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06/23/2025

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Ellen Truitt Hargraves: A Life of Love, Grace, and Enduring Legacy

Ellen Truitt Hargraves' long and courageous journey came to a peaceful close on Sunday, June 15th. After years of neurological decline, her body—worn from countless battles—finally found rest. Yet as her strength faded, her spirit grew ever more luminous. She left this world surrounded by love, having gifted her family and friends with a lifetime of wisdom, warmth, and unforgettable memories.

Ellen’s love touched many lives, especially those of her children: Carolyn Cassidy (husband Tim) of Ocean Ridge, FL; Patti Lannon (partner Kris Duquette) of Peabody, MA; and Robert Hargraves (wife Deanna) of Brunswick, ME. She was a cherished grandmother to nine grandchildren—Timothy Cassidy, Sarah Cassidy Bradshaw (husband Jamie), Laurel Cassidy, Matthew Lannon, Marin Lannon, Jenna Lannon, Gordon Hargraves, Olivia Hargraves, and Georgia Hargraves—each of whom held a special bond with their beloved “Grandma Ellen.”

Born on August 8, 1939, in Warsaw, NY, to Austin and Nellie (Jennings) Truitt, Ellen grew up in Rochester and was affectionately known as “Trudy.” She graduated from Denison University in 1961 and soon after moved to Massachusetts to teach elementary school in Groton. There, she met and married the love of her life, Bob Hargraves. While raising their family, she earned a master’s degree in education from Fitchburg State College in 1979 and continued to balance her roles as a dedicated educator and mother.

Ellen became a cornerstone of the Groton community, where she touched countless lives through her deep involvement and enduring friendships. A longtime member of Union Congregational Church, she sang in the choir for decades, later joined the bell choir, and even led the cherub choir for many years. Her passion for education extended into civic leadership—she served as Chair of the Groton School Committee during the 1970s and 1980s. She was active in the Groton Women’s Club, a Girl Scout leader, tennis player, pie baker, Christmas stocking knitter, swimming instructor, and passionate Red Sox fan. She supported political causes close to her heart, especially championing her husband, and was widely known for sending thoughtful, handwritten notes and cards on every occasion.

Ellen’s later years were marked by daily health challenges, yet also by extraordinary grace and courage. Her husband Bob stood beside her through it all—his steadfast care and deep devotion sustained her through the hardest times. His love extended Ellen’s life and lifted her spirit in ways that words can scarcely express. Their bond remains a quiet, powerful testament to enduring love.

Ellen’s life will be celebrated with calling hours on Friday, July 11, from 3–6 p.m. at Badger Funeral Home in Groton. A service honoring her life will follow on Saturday, July 12, at 11 a.m. at the Union Congregational Church, Groton.

Ellen’s light lives on in the hearts of those she touched.

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06/10/2025

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William Fraser Shute, lovingly known as Bill, passed away on June 1, 2025. He was a charismatic beacon in his community. Born on January 21, 1934, in Boston, MA, Bill's life was a testament to his dedication to service, creativity in his pursuits, and his loving nature towards everyone he encountered. His zest for life and his infectious energy filled every room he entered, leaving a lasting impression on those fortunate to cross his path.

Bill's remarkable journey began with his career as an engineer in the Town of Groton, a "true townee", a role that showcased his dedication and creativity. His passion for service extended beyond his professional life, evident in his roles as a Community Emergency Response and Emergency Planning Committee member, Fire Department photographer, and known affectionately as "Mr. Bill," the crosswalk guard. His commitment to service was recognized when he was named the President of the Tapper Club in Boston. A previous Arlington Firefighter, Bill's sense of duty and dedication were truly unmatched. In his leisure time, Bill was a skilled woodworker and carpenter, a hobby that allowed his creativity to shine. Bill also made an impact in his 35 years working at the Missile Systems Division at Raytheon.

Bill was a loving father to his sons, Derek, Kirk, and Tyler Shute, who carry forward his legacy. He will also be deeply missed by his two grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Patricia Shute, his parents, David and Eleanor Shute, and his dear sister, Mona White. His charm, dedication, creativity, and loving nature will be greatly missed, but never forgotten.

Visitation will take place on Tuesday, June 10, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at Badger Groton Funeral Home, 45 School Street, Groton, Massachusetts, 01450. The burial will follow at 1:30 p.m. at Groton Cemetery, 242 Hollis Street, Groton, Massachusetts, 01450.

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06/03/2025

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It is with a heavy heart that we announce the passing of Thomas Robert Carr, affectionately known as "Schemer" by his family and friends.

Born on July 30, 1963, in Groton, Massachusetts, Thomas was a man whose joys in life were as simple as they were profound. He was funny, always ready with a quick-witted remark or a good-natured prank. He was loving, his affection for those around him as deep as the ocean. He was supportive, a rock that his family could lean on in trying times. He was adventurous, a man who loved the thrill of mountain biking, snowboarding, and skiing, and who relished the roar of engines and the excitement of a NASCAR race. As Mark Twain once said, "The secret of success is making your vocation your vacation." For Thomas, his hobbies were not pastimes, but rather passions that invigorated his spirit and brought him joy.

Thomas was a man who found contentment in his work. As a janitor, his vocation may not have been glamorous, but it was one he approached with dedication and diligence. He understood that every job, no matter how seemingly small, contributes to the betterment of society.

Thomas was a loving husband to his wife, Holly, and a caring father to his son, Steven. He was supportive and reliable, always ready to lend a helping hand or a listening ear. Despite battling with the disease of COPD/Bullous emphysema for over 11 years, Thomas faced his trials with courage and resilience, never losing his sense of humor or his love for life.

Thomas is survived by his wife, Holly, his son, Steven, and his brothers Todd, Roy, and Ed, as well as many nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his parents, Thomas and Ann (Starr) Carr, his brother Alan, his niece Jessica, his sister Jamie, and his grandparents, Milton and Mary Starr, and his uncle Jon Starr.

To echo the words of Shakespeare, "All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances." Thomas has made his exit, but he leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and a lust for life that will be remembered by all who knew him. We invite those who knew Thomas to share their memories and upload photos to his memorial page. As we mourn his departure, let us also celebrate his life and the joy he brought into our lives.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, June 7, 2025, at 11:00 AM, at the Badger Funeral Home, 45 School St., Groton, MA.

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05/30/2025

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Mary Rose Collins, affectionately known as Mom, Grammy, or Gigi, passed away peacefully in Concord, MA, on May 27, 2025, at the age of 93. She was the beloved wife of the late Charles W. Collins, Jr., who passed away in 1990. Mary was born on November 24, 1931, in Concord, MA, daughter of the late Carlo and the late Cinderella (DeGrappo) Angelosanto.

Mary’s heart belonged to her family, who were central to her life. She cared deeply about her children and their partners: Marie Whalen (Phil), Richard White (Diana), Fawn Baker (Steve), and Steven White (Jennie), all of whom survive her and cherish the wisdom, support, and humor she generously gave them. Mary was exceptionally proud of her role as grandmother to 13 grandchildren and great-grandmother to 14 great-grandchildren, whose birthdays she never once missed.

She could always be counted on to cheer for each of their accomplishments, grieve for their losses, and pray for the well-being of every member of her family. She was also survived by her dear friend Paul Lehman, who has been a source of humor and support throughout the years. Throughout her life, Mary wore many hats — parent, grandparent, florist, cake decorator, and she even took part in history when she worked soldering the panels for the Apollo 11 rocket.

Mary was direct, honest, and always had a mischievous twinkle in her eye. She passionately embraced life, whether painting and creating colorful crafts, birdwatching, nurturing her plants, playing the piano, or camping alongside her beloved Charlie and her children in their cherished old Volkswagen van. If she was with her family or creating something to bring joy to her family, she was happy. Throughout her life, Mary was actively engaged in her community. At her apartment complex, and in the past at her local Senior Center, she was known for crafting joyful, festive displays for the holidays. She was deeply devoted to her Catholic faith.

In lieu of flowers please consider making a donation in Mary's name to the Groton Fire Department. Checks can be made payable to the Groton Fire Department Gifts Association and mailed to 45 Farmers Row, Groton, MA., 01450.

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05/14/2025

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05/14/2025

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George Wallace “Wally” Ritchie, age 81, of Worcester, MA passed away on Saturday, May 10, 2025, at the Lutheran Rehabilitation and Skilled Care Center in Worcester. He was the son of the late George and Maria (Dickson) Ritchie.

Wally was raised in Malden, MA, by his loving family and overcame many physical challenges, he was a caring soul who enjoyed the company of others. His parents were devoted to his well-being and spent all of their energy stimulating Wally with daily activities and exercises. Wally especially enjoyed his time spent at Pine Banks Park and Lynn Beach. In his later years, Wally lived in several group homes where he always made friends and attended daily workshops.

He is survived by his brother, David M. Ritchie and his wife Anne of Hampton, NH, his nieces, Heather Saluto and her husband Joseph of Raymond, NH, and Lisa Ritchie of Hampton, NH, and nephew, Christopher Ritchie and his wife Elizabeth of Stratham, NH, and grandnephews Thomas, Maxwell, and Tyler and grandniece Emma.

A private graveside service will be held at the family burial plot at Groton Cemetery, Groton, MA.

Donations in his memory may be made to the charity of your choice.

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05/14/2025

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Peter Hitchcock Brigham passed away on May 7, 2025, succumbing to cancer at his residence in Groton, MA.

Peter was born in Norwood, MA on June 30, 1950 to Welma (Leeman) Brigham and Howard H. Brigham, both originally from Springfield, MA. He moved with his parents to Littleton, MA as an infant, and spent his childhood on Starr Hill roaming the woods and fields surrounding Long Lake with his brothers and friends.

Peter attended Littleton schools, and graduated from Littleton High School in 1968. Following high school, Peter attended Wentworth Institute of Technology in Boston for several semesters, majoring in mechanical engineering. Pete could fix anything - and went on to make his living doing small engine repair as well as working on motorcycle and car engines. In addition, he did landscaping, wood cutting, and other handyman jobs as the occasions arose. In his younger years, Pete raced motocross and enjoyed scuba diving; throughout his life he was an avid fisherman. Peter was very loyal and generous to his family and friends, and met all his challenges with humor and a quiet dignity. He will be missed.

Peter is survived by his brothers Jonathan and his wife Susan, Thomas and his wife Karen, James, and Robert, as well as by nieces, nephews, and their children.

A memorial will be scheduled at a future date; burial will be private.

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