04/16/2026
Patrick Lee Romero, 52, of Boise City, Oklahoma, passed away at his home on April 16th.
Patrick was born on May 10, 1973, in Show Low, Arizona, as Donnie Kennedy to Cruzita Jaramillo and Donnie Kennedy. He was later adopted and raised by his uncle and aunt, Robert Romero and Linda VanLeer, who became his parents. At the time of his adoption, his name was changed to Patrick Lee Romero, named in honor of his adoptive mother’s brother.
Patrick grew up in Snowflake, Arizona, alongside his older siblings, Steven, Donald, and Roberta Romero. He shared stories of their athletic abilities and involvement in sports and often spoke with pride about his sister Roberta, who held the Snowflake school record for shot put for many years after her passing. He loved being the younger brother and always felt deeply loved by his siblings.
As he grew older, Patrick learned of his adoption and became curious about his biological family. Before his freshman year of high school, he moved to Greenville, California, to live with his biological mother, Cruzita. There, he met his younger brother, Brandon, and younger sister, Linda, as well as his future wife, Katrina. Patrick and Katrina remained friends throughout the years, eventually developing a romantic relationship in 2011. He embraced his role as an older brother and did his best to build those relationships.
In 1993, Patrick returned to Snowflake to be near his mother, Linda, whom he missed greatly. During that time, he met his stepfather, Billy Barrera, and became an older brother to his step-siblings, Lucy, Amy, and Billy Barrera Jr., forming close bonds with each of them.
In the early 1990s, Patrick became a father for the first time. In 1993, he welcomed his son, Paul Demus Romero.
In 1994, Patrick met and later married Abralene Begay (Iannoli). He became a father again in 1996 with the birth of his daughter, Dreanna Marie, and in 1999, he welcomed his youngest son, Gregory Michael. Patrick did his best to be present in their lives, and together they made their home in Snowflake, raising their children until their divorce in 2009.
In 2006, Paul came to live with Patrick and his family in Snowflake, something Patrick cherished deeply as it brought his children closer together.
In 2011, Patrick moved to Boise City, Oklahoma. While there, he and Katrina married in 2012, making their home together. Patrick often spoke fondly of Katrina and shared how grateful he was to have rekindled their lifelong friendship. Katrina was a devoted partner who cared for Patrick and remained by his side through his final days. Though they did not have children together, they shared a special bond with their dogs, whom they loved as their own.
Patrick discovered a love for building and enjoyed working in construction during his time in Arizona. After moving to Oklahoma, he found a similar passion in farming. Working alongside his brother-in-law, Matt, he stayed busy farming winter wheat and milo and all that it entailed. He also helped work cattle and assisted with any construction projects that needed to be done. He enjoyed long days on the tractor, often listening to his favorite rock bands. He took to the work, but never quite made peace with the tornadoes.
Music was a significant part of Patrick’s life. Coming from a musically talented family, he developed a love for playing the guitar. He had a natural ability to listen to a song and teach himself how to play it, often singing along to his favorite tunes. While he occasionally dabbled in piano, his true love was the guitar.
Patrick enjoyed cooking and grilling for his many friends, his family, and even the occasional stranger he brought home so he could feed them. He was kind to those around him, whether he knew them or not, and would go out of his way to help anyone in need. He could also be stubborn and set in his ways, rarely straying from his routines. He had a playful sense of humor and loved joking with others, especially his mother, Linda. Every April Fools’ Day, he made it a tradition to play a joke on her, and every year she fell for it. He also loved giving nicknames to those he cared about, and each of his children carried one given by him. He loved football season and watched every game he could, remaining a loyal Dallas Cowboys fan year after year, win or lose. Patrick faced personal challenges throughout his life but remained connected to those he loved.
Patrick is survived by his spouse, Katrina Romero; his children, Paul Demus Romero, Dreanna Marie Romero, and Gregory Michael Romero; and his four grandchildren. He is also survived by his stepfather, Billy Barrera (Michelle), and his mother-in-law, Viola Gonzalez. He is further survived by his biological siblings, Linda Kennedy and Brandon Kennedy (Melissa); his half-siblings, Jace Kennedy and Jamie Kennedy; and his step-siblings, Steven Romero, Donald Romero, Amy Robinson (Matthew), Billy Barrera Jr. (Jessica), Tasha Barton (Timothy), Stephanie Hamm (Thomas), Melissa Barrera, and Jessica Barrera. He also leaves behind many nieces and nephews who loved him dearly, as well as his beloved animals, Chance, Asia, and Three.
He was preceded in death by his fathers, Robert Romero and Donnie Kennedy; his father-in-law, Jesus “Jesse” Gonzalez; his mother, Linda VanLeer; and his sisters, Destinie Kennedy, Roberta Lake, and Lucy Barrera.
A celebration of life will take place on May 30th at 10:00 a.m. at Abundant Grace Church in Boise City, Oklahoma.
Patrick will be remembered for his humor, his love of music, and the kindness he showed to those around him. He will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.
Friends and family may sign the online guest book, leave an online condolence or upload a favorite photo to www.hensonnovak.com.