01/29/2026
I am not anti Christianity, I am anti weaponized faith. I believe you can be conservative, Republican, moderate, whatever you want to be, and still stand firmly for justice, truth, and equality. What I cannot understand is the willingness to abandon discernment in exchange for fear.
I talk about fear versus love all the time because it is the choice underneath everything we do. How we lead. How we listen. How we respond when our beliefs are challenged. Fear narrows us. Love asks us to stay present. Fear demands loyalty. Love asks for truth.
I was spoken to condescendingly and then blocked by a Christian minister I have known for many years because I refused to blindly accept a fear driven narrative, even when irrefutable evidence was placed directly in front of him about the murder of alex pretti. Watching early confident claims begin to soften as more information emerges has only deepened the grief. This is not about one conversation or one attack by ice. It is about a pattern.
When leadership is rooted in fear, everything becomes a weapon. People become enemies. Truth becomes inconvenient. Loyalty is demanded instead of integrity. That is NOT faith. That is NOT leadership. And it is terrifying when it comes from people who shape minds, communities, and congregations.
Alex Pretti feels like a line in the sand. When a nation is governed through fear, it creates a pulse beneath everything, a pressure that keeps building, and we know what happens when pressure keeps building.
This is the moment where leadership is revealed. We can continue to weaponize fear, or we can choose love and accountability. What we choose to lead with right now matters. Fear multiplies. Love steadies. And the cost of choosing wrong is already being paid in human lives. They are literally writing the history books about this moment, how will we be remembered?