11/18/2021
There are little changes you can make, and then there are the major life-overhaul changes. We often get stuck in a certain town, living with certain people, working a certain job, doing the same habits day in and day out. So many times, if we hate our job or our relationship or our location, we will still stay, even though it kind of sucks. Why is that?
Depending on what you believe, we only get one life, and it passes by pretty fast. The only person who has control over how and where you spend that time and whether or not you enjoy it (for the most part) is you. And at any moment, you can make different choices and change direction. You are the pilot, the director, the person in charge.
I don’t have all the answers, but here’s what I do know.
Sometimes, we doubt ourselves and just don’t believe that we have the strength required to make the necessary changes.
We are more comfortable with “what we know” (past experiences) then stepping into the unknown and out of our comfort zone, even when “what we know” is bad. Fear is a great stopper for a lot of people.
We don’t want to feel the pain and uncomfortable feelings that come with a lot of changes.
We’ve given our power away. Sometimes, we’ve given our power away to other people. What “they think” becomes more important than what “we think”. We place more importance on others’ happiness than our own, or we mistakenly believe we are responsible for another person’s happiness (you never are).
I can help support and guide you make the changes you want in your life. Dm me to work together.