01/13/2026
Are you making this mistake without realizing it? A regulated nervous system doesn’t always feel calm or pleasant at first. Sometimes it feels like discomfort. Sometimes it feels like emotion surfacing after a long time underground. And that’s not a problem. That’s your system finally feeling safe enough to let things move. Many people assume healing should feel immediately soothing. But when the body comes out of survival mode, sensation returns. Feelings return. Signals return. That can feel confusing if no one told you what to expect. If you’re noticing more emotion, more sensation, or more internal movement after slowing down, nothing is going wrong. Your nervous system may be doing exactly what it’s designed to do when safety is present. I created a short Safety Environment practice to help your system orient to safety gently, without forcing calm or bypassing what’s real. You can download it for free through the link in my bio.