03/06/2026
Proactive ABA Strategies to Prevent Challenging Behavior
At Mayflower Early ABA Services, we believe the best way to address challenging behavior is to prevent it before it starts!
Many behaviors happen when children feel overwhelmed, confused, or unable to communicate their needs. Small proactive strategies can make a big difference.
Here are a few antecedent strategies parents can start using today:
✨ Use “First–Then” language
“First clean up (Low prob bx), THEN, iPad (High prob bx)”
"First homework, then Playground"
📅 Create predictable routines
Children thrive when they know what to expect. Visual schedules or simple daily routines can reduce anxiety and resistance.
⏳ Give transition warnings (visual timers work best!)
Sudden changes are hard. Try giving reminders:
“Five more minutes… two more minutes… then we clean up.”
🎯 Make expectations clear and simple (Tell them what you want them to do instead of what not to do!)
Instead of saying “don't touch that, or stop running,” try:
“Hands to yourself.”
“Walking feet.”
💬 Encourage communication
When children can ask for help, breaks, or more time, many challenging behaviors decrease.
🏃 Build movement and breaks into the day
Many children need opportunities to move their bodies to stay regulated and ready to learn.
❤️ Catch the good moments
Praise the behaviors you want to see more of (be specific!)
“I love how you asked for help!”
Small proactive supports can create calmer days, more success, and more connection for families.
At Mayflower, we believe kindness and science work together.
