07/23/2025
Lile Ann Petersen
Lile Ann Petersen
Lile Ann Petersen was born to Horace and Rose Petersen on February 20, 1933, in Jacksonville, Iowa, the seventh of thirteen children. She was raised on the family farm, where she developed a strong work ethic, deep spiritual values, and a love for helping others. These early experiences would serve as the foundation for the life of service and love that followed. She graduated from Harlan High School in 1951, where she was crowned Homecoming Queen, an early sign of her friendly and generous spirit.
After high school, Lile worked as a secretary at Farm Service Coop before marrying her high school sweetheart, Richard “Pete” Petersen, on March 14, 1953. Together, they built a life rooted in faith, family, and hard work. They raised four children: Mark, Brian, Tami, and Jeffery, on the family farm near Harlan. Their home was a warm and welcoming place, often filled with laughter, the smell of home-baked cookies, and the joyful chaos of children and grandchildren. For 27 years, Lile and Richard spent their winters in Texas, enjoying sunshine, friendship, and time to rest and reflect away from the Iowa winters.
Lile was a woman of deep faith and lived that faith through tireless service to her church and community. A lifelong member of the Methodist Church, she was active in nearly every aspect of church life, serving as a choir member, lay leader, Sunday school and Bible school teacher, and district officer for the United Methodist Women. Her faith also led her on mission trips to places like Bolivia, Peru, and Oklahoma, where she worked to bring hope and comfort to others.
Her commitment to service extended into many areas of community life. She volunteered for decades with Camp Aldersgate, a beloved ministry for individuals with physical and mental challenges. She also served as a 4-H leader, Girl Scout leader, a member of the Hospital and Elm Crest Auxiliaries, Harlan Red Hat Society, LNO, Merry Homemakers, and was a longtime Weight Watchers group leader, using her own health journey to inspire and encourage others.
Lile’s warmth and energy were known by all who met her. She was a skilled cook and baker, and her kitchen was a place of comfort and joy. Her chocolate chip cookies, sugar cookies, homemade jams, cinnamon rolls and holiday treats became family traditions, and her holiday gatherings were legendary.
Throughout her life, Lile was recognized for her extraordinary contributions. She was named Shelby County Citizen of the Year, inducted into the Shelby County Fair Hall of Fame, honored as an Iowa Master Farm Homemaker in 2002, and named a Merit Mother in 2016. But her proudest achievements were the relationships she built with her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and countless friends.
Lile passed away peacefully on July 23, 2025, at Elm Crest Assisted Living, surrounded by her loving family. She was 92 years old and left behind a legacy of faith and compassion to those she cared for. She was preceded in death by her parents, Horace and Rose Petersen; and her siblings, Eugene, Irene, Frances, Carol, Verda, Mary, Norma, James, Carl, Clemen, Timothy, Linda.
She is survived by her beloved husband of 72 years, Richard D. Petersen of Harlan, IA; children, Mark (Deb) Petersen of Harlan, IA, Brian Petersen of Harlan, IA, Tami (Dan) Goetz of Cedar Falls, IA, Jeffery (Cyndi) Petersen of Harlan, IA; 9 grandchildren; 21 great grandchildren; other relatives and many friends.
In Lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the family to be distributed to the Kirkman United Methodist Church or Alzheimer’s Association.
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