08/04/2025
✨PRAGMATICS aka SOCIAL LANGUAGE SKILLS✨
Long, but important post. 😋
A lot of times behaviors stem from deficits in communication abilities. It is super important to teach kiddos how to communicate in different social situations. Teaching pragmatic skills will look different for each child depending on multiple factors. Some factors to consider include age, environment, communication ability, diagnosis, past trauma, family dynamic, ect.
You always want to meet the child where they’re at and do your best to figure out WHY behaviors are taking place.
Is a behavior disorder the primary reason? Usually not.
This client and I talked about having nice hands, or happy hands. We talked about what it means to be nice, times when people were nice to us, times when we were nice to other people. We talked about how it is NOT nice to use our hands to hit, and instead talked about phrases we can use to replace hitting.
For this kiddo, hitting incidents are being seen mostly when he wants to play with a toy another kid has or when another kid comes and takes a toy away from him. My buddy here also has an expressive language disorder, so of course it’s going to be more challenging for him to express how he feels. We acted out play scenarios using the short phrases that have been introduced to him. 99.9% of the time kids are not out to be malicious (not research based…. buuuuut I’m sure it’s pretty darn close🤪). They need guidance and they need to be taught tools that they can use when they face challenging situations. Being an effective and efficient communicator is one of the greatest tools.
I absolutely love helping these kiddos become emotionally strong communicators by teaching them how to use proper communication skills during hard times. Learning how to use appropriate social language skills is highly important for ALL kiddos. 🫶🏼