02/06/2026
Client says something concerning in session. Do I handle this? Or refer out?
Your brain thinks you should handle everything. You’re terrified of seeming incompetent. Or abandoning your client. So you stay in over your head. And hope it works out.
But here’s what I notice. New therapists don’t know where their scope ends. So they do crisis work they’re not trained for. Or they refer out too quickly. Both create problems.
Here’s what to ask before every crisis moment:
Am I trained for this level of risk? If you haven’t had crisis intervention training yet, refer. Period.
Does my liability insurance cover this? Check your policy. Some exclude high-risk populations.
Can I provide adequate follow-up? If you see clients once a week or bimonthly and they need daily check-ins, that’s not your scope.
Do I have backup? Consultation group? Supervisor available on call? If you’re alone, you may need to reconsider.
What does my gut say? If you’re scared, that’s information. Listen to it.
You’ll stop taking on cases that keep you awake at night. You’ll refer confidently rather than feel guilty. And you’ll know the difference between stretching your skills and drowning.
God calls us to be faithful stewards of our gifts. Part of that faithfulness is knowing when a client needs someone with different training.
The confusion about your scope? Gone. The fear you’re abandoning clients? Replaced with clear boundaries.
Save this for crisis moments. Free Know Your Scope checklist in bio.
Have you ever stayed in over your head with a client? (Be honest - we’ve all done it)