10/27/2025
                                            Real talk — do you think a counselor needs to be “healed” or “strong” themselves before they can truly be effective?
I hear people say “you can only take clients as far as you’ve gone yourself,” and I get that. But also… we’re all human. We’ve all got our own bad habits, unfinished stories, and emotional blind spots.
Is it hypocritical to help others while still working on yourself? Or is it exactly that ongoing work that keeps us grounded and empathic?
I’ve met clinicians who seem unshakably solid — and others whose transparency about their own growth makes them powerful healers.
So what do you think?
Does being an effective counselor require personal wholeness — or just awareness and humility about your own cracks?                                        
 
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                         
   
   
   
   
     
   
   
  