
07/08/2025
A child being born is often a catalyst for healing. To be better. That child doesn't know the parent is healing. What is being faced in hopes to be everything they deserve us to be. The wounds... we try to hide them. But kids can see through the facade. And they dont always understand why patience may be short, why were overwhelmed, why the affection isn't there like it should be. Then another child comes along. And active healing has changed us. We understand life better. Are more patient, more loving. How do we explain to the first child that we never loved them less? That our love for them got us here, saved us... How do we explain the difference?
We will leave an imprint on our children. And its not always the one we want. But through healing past wounds, trying, making improvements... our kids see that effort as well. See the obstacles and the struggles overcome. And hopefully know that we cleared that path to make it easier for them.
Should that path ever get hard to navigate, dad will be there to help show the way. Dad loves you more than you'll ever know.