02/16/2026
Grief can feel like a tornado of life, leveling what you knew. As you stand in front of the rubble of what was, it is normal to feel anxious, hurt, overwhelmed, or lost.
You might feel like you are at rock bottom. But rock bottom is a firm foundation.
Whether it is the loss of a relationship, financial security after a setback, a failing marriage, a job, a dream that did not unfold the way you hoped, or even the grief that comes with a major life transition like a change in health or a new stage of life, yes, we pause in the debris. We acknowledge it. We sit with it for a moment and say, “This is hard.”
But then comes the question.
If you have been through a tornado of life, what kind of house do you want to build?
I am not saying there will not be bad weather again. Storms are part of living. But this time, you get to choose how to secure your house. You get to build with intention. You get to design it differently if you want. The great part is, it is your life. It is your role. You get to choose what this looks like.
So what kind of house will you rebuild?
Pick up your hammer and start building.
And if you need more tools in your toolbox, I am here to lend them. Just reach out.
