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01/20/2026

Many of us will become a caregiver at some point in our lives. The stress and strain of caregiving can take a toll on your health. It’s important to find ways to care for yourself while caring for others. Depending on your circumstances, some self-care strategies may be more difficult to carry out than others. Choose what works for you. Read more: https://bit.ly/3HtWCYC

01/20/2026

01/09/2026

What is the Shroud of Turin?

The Shroud of Turin is an ancient linen cloth that holds a mysterious image of a scourged and crucified man. It's widely regarded as the most scientifically studied artifact in history, yet no one can explain how the mysterious image was formed. The wounds of the Man of the Shroud reflect the Biblical narrative of the suffering and death of Jesus Christ.

01/07/2026

John Henderson Wilson Petty, 74, passed away on Tuesday, December 30, 2025, at his residence. Born March 5, 1951, in Jefferson County, KY, he was the son of the late Newel Heath Petty and Shirley Louise Wilson Petty.
John served in church ministry in North Carolina, Indiana, Virginia, Ohio, and Alabama as well as chaplaincy programs in North Carolina and Virginia; and received his PhD in Pastoral Counseling in 2002.
John is survived by his wife of 52 years, Kimberly Anne Petty; sons, Jared Heath Petty (Angela) and Andrew Scott Petty; sisters Jackie Stalker, Jill Chandler (Bill), Terry Stewart (David), brother-in-law Brian Tharp wife (Christina), nieces and nephews, and Daisy, his beloved Shih Tzu.
He loved his Lord, his family, the companionship of his special pets, his church family, dear friends near and far, holidays, reading, guitar playing, anything to do with the Peanuts gang, and University of Alabama football (Roll Tide!). A special thank you to Pastor Mike Campbell, and those who prayed for, assisted, and supported him and his family during his time of illness.
A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, January 10, at 2 pm at the Royal Chapel Church of God, followed by a receiving of family and friends in the church’s Family Life Center.
In lieu of flowers, please send contributions to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital: https://www.stjude.org/
Condolences may be sent to the Petty family at: www.drumfh-hickory.com
Drum Funeral Home in Hickory is honored to be serving the Petty family.

01/07/2026

Seth Ward “Bumpy” Paschal, 78, surrounded by family members went to be with the Lord on December 30, 2025. He was born June 18, 1947 in Greensboro, NC. He was the son of the late Baxter Leon (Virginia Earl) Paschal. Seth graduated from Ben L. Smith High School (Greensboro) in 1967 and furthered his education by becoming a Certified Heavy Equipment Operator. He started working for the NCDOT, but in 1977, he joined the Water Resource Department for the City of Greensboro. After retiring in 2004, Seth became a Volunteer Driver for the DAV taking Veterans to their doctor appointments at area clinics.
In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his sister and brother-in-law, Debbie (Bynum) Blackburn; son-in-law, Patrick J. Stanley; brothers-in-law Neil Spencer, Roger Bullington, and Jimmy Seguin.
Seth and his wife, Carolyn, celebrated their 27th wedding anniversary on December 19, 2025. Also surviving are daughters, Tracy Stanley, Ashley (Kevin) McCullum, and Robyn (Jimmy) Decker; five grandchildren, Austin Kendrick, Nicholas Stanley, Taylor Stanley, Anna Ison, and Ethan Ison; sisters, Benny Spencer and fiancé Gary Comstock, Jenny Bullington, Linda Seguin, Lenlu (Larry) Luck, Ann B. (Toney) Conte, and Kelly (Randy) Coleman; sisters-in-law, Marsha (Raymond) Eggleton and Kathy Farus.
Affectionately called “Dad” by caregiver Dee (Andreas) Rodregus and daughter, Maria. Affectionately called “Vovo” (Grandpa) by Jeremy (Camilla) Lucas and children Joshua, Chole, Owen and Brody, Brian (Kensey) Guino, plus many nieces and nephews. Seth will be sorely missed by his dog, “Delilah” and cat “Sami”.
We would like to thank the Staff at Carolina Caring for their care and support during Seth’s illness.
A memorial service will be held at St. Peter’s Lutheran Church, 6175 St. Peter’s Church Road, Conover, NC on January 17, 2026 at 12 noon with visitation from 10:30 a.m. until 11:45 a.m. prior to the service. Pastors Peter Frank and Eric Hauss will officiate.
Memorials may be given to Carolina Caring, 3975 Robinson Road, Newton, NC 28658.
Condolences may be sent to the Paschal family at www.drumfh-hickory.com
Arrangements are being handled by Drum Funeral Home in Hickory, NC.

01/01/2026

Happy New Year from Drum Funeral Home - Hickory

12/25/2025

Merry Christmas 🎄

12/22/2025

The loss of a loved one hurts more on holidays, birthdays, anniversaries or other special days, when the grief you feel gains additional clarity and depth. These feelings are normal and to be expected. The absence of your loved one will alter or completely change the traditions you shared, which in turn will awaken many memories.

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12/16/2025

Laveta Harvard LaMontagne, 84, passed away early in the morning on December 10 at Conover Nursing Home, surrounded by love and held in God’s peace.
Born on March 19, 1941, in Lakeland, Florida, Laveta lived a full and beautiful life grounded in faith, compassion, and unwavering strength. Throughout her lifetime she embraced many callings—teacher, nurse, and florist—each one a reflection of her desire to help, nurture, and bring beauty into the world.
Laveta’s devotion to her faith was the cornerstone of her life. She loved Jesus above all else, and her greatest joy was sharing that love with others. She offered prayers freely, comforted anyone in need, and carried a gentle, radiant kindness wherever she went. Her second great love was her family, whom she cherished deeply and guided with wisdom, humor, and an open heart.
She possessed a wonderful sense of humor and a warmth that could light up any room. Creative, funny, loving, and endlessly resourceful, Laveta was the person everyone turned to—an extraordinary problem solver and a woman of remarkable inner strength.
Laveta is survived by her devoted husband, Gerald Bryan LaMontagne, 82; her son Robert Gerald LaMontagne; her daughters Lisa LaMontagne Gardner, Laurie LaMontagne White, and Michelle LaMontagne Hawkins; and five loving grandchildren. Her love endures in each of them, and in all who were blessed to know her.
Laveta was, in every way, a truly wonderful woman. Her faith, her joy, and her kindness will live on in our hearts forever, guiding us toward the Lord and reminding us always to do the right thing.
A service celebrating Laveta’s life will be held on December 29, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at Drum Funeral Home in Hickory, NC.

Condolences may be sent to the LaMontagne family at www.drumfh-hickory.com
Drum Funeral Home in Hickory is honored to be serving the LaMontagne family.

12/16/2025

Doris Janette Sharpe Hollar , 90, passed away December 13 , 2025 at her daughter’s residence.
Born February 5, 1935 in Columbia, SC, she was the daughter of the late Lewis Roy Weeks and Eva Louellen Sharpe. Doris was a member of St. Stephens Lutheran Church LCMS and was previously employed as a supervisor of production in the foam manufacturing business.
In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her husband of 62 years, Clyde Hollar; daughter, Kimberly Hollar; and brother, Charles Sharpe.
Survivors include her daughter, Sheila H Dyson and husband Chris; brother and sister-in-law, Bob Hollar and wife, Pat; and a number of nieces and nephews.
A Celebration of Life will be held at 12:00 p.m. on Thursday, December 18, 2025 at St. Stephens Lutheran Church LCMS in Hickory with Pastor Shea Pennington officiating. Burial will follow in the church cemetery.
The family will receive friends from 11:00 pm until 11:45 pm prior to the service.
Condolences may be sent to the Hollar family at www.drumfh-hickory.com.
Drum Funeral Home in Hickory was honored to serve the Hollar family.

12/08/2025

Whether this is your 1st, 2nd, 6th or even 10th holiday without your loved one, there are several ways you can manage your grief while still celebrating the season.

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