01/24/2026
Do boundaries feel worse after you set them?
If you’ve ever said no and then spent hours replaying it, feeling guilty, tense, or tempted to undo it—this isn’t because you lack confidence or clarity.
For many people, boundaries activate old learning from a time when staying agreeable, quiet, or accommodating helped you stay safe or connected. Your body may still react as if self-assertion is risky, even when your adult self knows better.
Save this for the next time guilt shows up.
Share with someone who needs the reminder.