Healing With Spirit

Healing With Spirit Offers Spiritually Based Integrative Holistic Health Enrichment Services, Classes, Retreats, Groups since 2006.

Laura's an experienced multi-generational multi-disciplinary healer & intuitive, speaker, author, sacred activist, podcast host, medicine woman In 2022, Healing With Spirit moved to a new location and opened as a collaborative space located in Hingham, MA where private sessions, classes, events, and workshops are held by seasoned, experienced professionals. The incredible new space is available for day rentals as well for folks seeking a meeting space, a place to host an event, studio for photographers, and more. Our overall mission is to help illuminate your soul, guide you on your path, remove toxicity and restore wholeness. The founder, Laura Joseph, is a published author, experienced multi-generational healer & intuitive, speaker, podcaster, seeker, spiritual teacher and mentor, Jikiden Reiki® Shihan (teacher), social justice warrior, and a survivor of domestic violence and sexual assault. She helps folks who suffer from a history of chronic illness, cancer, trauma, and/or abuse to address root issues, transform pain, bridge science, research and the practical magic so that they can experience sustainable healing and wholeness by rediscovering the body's ability to heal itself and the power that lies within so that they can become their own superhero. She offers private sessions, classes, retreats and events:
Jikiden Reiki ~ Meditation ~ Spiritual Mediumship ~ Spiritual Guidance & Mentorship ~ End of Life Spiritual Care ~ Holistic Health ~ Healing Root Issues ~ Numerology ~ Tarot Readings~ Vibrational Healing ~ Pet Reiki ~ Guest Appearances ~ Groups ~ Retreats

Laura is also available for private and public events including speaking opportunities.

02/13/2026

How to Disarm DARVO: What We Can Do

For those asking what we actually do next:

What I’m sharing here comes from decades of lived experience, formal trauma training, and years navigating family court sanctioned abuse systems from the inside.

This is not theory for me.

Here’s how we can respond:

1️⃣ Learn to spot it.

Look for:
• Immediate denial of harm
• Attacks on the credibility of the person raising concern
• Shifting focus away from the original issue
• Portraying the powerful person as the true victim
• Emotional indignation used to distract from facts

2️⃣ Regulate yourself.

DARVO is designed to activate you. Confusion and outrage are part of the strategy. When we become reactive, we’re easier to manipulate.

3️⃣ Name the pattern calmly.

“This sounds like denial.”
“This feels like reversing victim and offender.”
“We’re moving away from the original issue.”

Calm pattern recognition is powerful.

4️⃣ Do not mirror the tactic.

Do not counter-attack character with character.
Do not smear.
Do not dehumanize.

Replicating the dynamic strengthens it.

5️⃣ Support those targeted.

Reach out privately.
Affirm publicly when appropriate.
Fund survivor-led organizations.
Build informed communities.

6️⃣ Build micro safe spaces.

Not everyone is called to public advocacy.

But everyone can refuse to normalize inversion in their home, workplace, spiritual community, or friend circle.

Cultural change starts relationally.

You don’t disarm DARVO by becoming louder than it.
You disarm it by becoming steadier than it.

If these steps resonate or feel helpful, please share directly. Sharing from the page helps sustain the advocacy, education, & labor behind it.

I appreciate you helping keep the work rooted and resourced.

With care,
Laura Bonetzky-Gaffney

Author, Podcast Host of Triggers And Spiritual Medicine, Multi-Generational Multi-Disciplinary Healer & intuitive, Activist, Trauma Educator, Spiritual Teacher

https://linktr.ee/HealingWithSpirit

The energies in the coming days are NO joke and those consciously or unconsciously holding up systems of oppression & to...
02/13/2026

The energies in the coming days are NO joke and those consciously or unconsciously holding up systems of oppression & toxic capitalism especially in the spiritual wellness spaces will be faced with some BIG reckoning.

Below is .

Booking 1:1 and group readings. Openings available next week.

BOOK HERE🔗 https://HealingWithSpirit.as.me/

LEARN MORE HERE 🔗 www.LauraHealingWithSpirit.com

Dearest soul, if you are feeling this, stop  moment.  Feel your breath. Open your mouth. Stretch it. Sing. Scream. Cry. ...
02/12/2026

Dearest soul, if you are feeling this, stop moment. Feel your breath. Open your mouth. Stretch it. Sing. Scream. Cry. Allow the sound to move through you and out of the body.

I'll be posting on the Healing Trauma Through Spirit page with steps to take and "what now" soon.

This affects me too and a system I've fought against on behalf of survivors and my children for over 20yrs

If you are watching the hearings, you may be noticing something that those of us trained in domestic violence dynamics, coercive control & family court sanctioned abuse recognize almost immediately.

What you’re witnessing is a textbook example of DARVO.
Deny.
Attack.
Reverse Victim & Offender.

It’s a strategy used by abusers & systems alike.

First, deny harm. Then attack the credibility, character, or motives of the person raising concern. Finally, position oneself as the real victim while casting the harmed party as the aggressor.

When spending years in the trenches of dv advocacy, especially navigating the family court system, this pattern becomes unmistakable. It’s not dramatic. It’s procedural. It’s polished. It often sounds calm, reasonable, even authoritative.

And that’s what makes it so dangerous.

For those of us who have worked with survivors whose lived realities were dismissed, distorted, or weaponized against them in courtrooms, watching this dynamic play out on a national stage is not just political. It’s visceral.

I’m noticing how activated I feel.

Because what I’m seeing mirrors the very machinery I’ve spent 22yrs fighting against. The same tactics that silence survivors. The same inversions that protect power. The same strategic reframing that turns harm into accusation & accountability into persecution.

This isn’t about partisan politics for me. It’s pattern recognition.

It’s about understanding how abuse of power operates, whether in a home, a courtroom, or a congressional hearing.

And if you feel unsettled watching it, that may NOT be because you’re too sensitive. It may be because your nervous system recognizes something your mind is still trying to process.

For those trained to see it, you can’t unsee it.

And for those who haven’t yet learned the pattern, this may be an opportunity to get curious about how DARVO functions, not just interpersonally, but institutionally.

This is why trauma education matters.
This is why survivor advocacy matters.
This is why we keep speaking.

Even when it’s exhausting
Even when it’s triggering
Even when the beast looks bigger than ever
Especially then

Power to the survivors

with care,
Laura

02/10/2026

Valentine's Day Gift Ideas that stretch your dollar, support our Sacred Activist work, and make an impact.

The CALM teas, Soul tshirts & Mugs, books, sprays artwork are created by me.

Many items are local made from other artists or farms.

Some items were purchased directly from Indigenous tribes to support their causes and rights to exist in the world in the Yukatan and Colombia.

Also available is gift certificates for classes, workshops, 1:1 services.

Optional mailing to folks in USA at this time.

I am here today, Tuesday 2/10 til 7:30pm or message me for a time to come by. Virtual shopping appts also available.

Healing With Spirit
Hingham MA

Thank you for supporting small woman owned businesses that strive to make an impact in the world.

With care,
Laura

I have an invitation for you but first, i need to express some real life things. Lately, I’ve been sitting with a lot of...
02/09/2026

I have an invitation for you but first, i need to express some real life things. Lately, I’ve been sitting with a lot of grief.

Watching so many people, especially childhood friends and those in spiritual communities, elevate hate, normalize harm to children, align with divisive and racist ideologies, and participate in dehumanization has been devastating.

The sheer volume of harmful behavior right now feels overwhelming.

Especially when all I’ve ever worked toward, for over five decades, is healing root causes. In animals. In plants. In people. In systems.

This has been a lonely, deeply initiatory path.

And while I believe everything I’ve lived and survived prepared me for these times, there are days I still wonder. Will people lean in? Or will the patterns of victim blaming and elevating harm continue?

What steadies me are the small but real pockets of ethical, rooted community. Spaces of integrity, healing, sacred activism, and care. Living medicine.

If you’re grieving too, questioning how to stay human in inhumane times, or longing for real healing spaces, you’re not alone.

✨ This is the work I quietly tend through 1:1 support, community, teaching, healing, and sacred activism.

✨ The door is open.

➡️ If you feel called, join us this Wednesday, 2/11 at 7:30 pm EST on Zoom for our women’s virtual support group and healing circle.

With care,
Laura

These gatherings are a space to release, transform, and find and foster community support without financial barriers. These circles are designed as safe, supportive spaces for those feeling the weight...READ MORE

02/07/2026

Powerful message on the Triggers and Spiritual Medicine podcast

In this February episode of Triggers in Spiritual Medicine, Laura is joined by mystic, author, and embodied truth teller Coco Oya for a conversation that moves far beyond surface level spirituality and into the bones of real healing.

Together, Laura and Coco Oya explore what happens when women’s circles stop bypassing discomfort and begin addressing the deeper ancestral, racial, maternal, and embodied wounds that live in the body. Drawing from Coco Oya’s powerful book Digging for Mother’s Bones, the conversation invites listeners to reconnect with the wisdom of the body, the womb, and the feminine creative force that has been suppressed, misunderstood, or diluted into “love and light” spirituality.

Coco Oya shares her journey from being a self described non feeler to fully embodying feminine power after a near death experience, and how that initiation revealed the collective mother wound that so many carry, often unconsciously. Laura and Coco Oya speak candidly about what it means to move from a mindset of being broken or needing to be fixed into remembering our inherent wholeness.

This episode weaves together embodiment, ancestral healing, racial truth telling, and the necessity of moving beyond band aid approaches to healing. They reflect on the discomfort that arises when spiritual spaces avoid hard conversations, and why true sisterhood requires honesty, accountability, and a willingness to feel what lives in the body rather than label or bypass it.

They also explore the balance between feminine and masculine energies, with women as alchemizers of energy and men as guardians of land and life, and how both are needed to restore harmony. The conversation touches on current global turbulence, bodily symptoms during times of rapid energetic change, and why trusting the body’s intelligence is essential as humanity moves through this pivotal threshold.

As always, this episode offers reflection, truth, and practical spiritual medicine, inviting listeners to turn triggers into transformation and remember the wisdom they already carry.

Episode can be found on most streaming platforms and YouTube or go to https://triggersandspiritualmedicine.buzzsprout.com/

A solution forward message we hopefully use. A lot of what we’re seeing right now is not accidental.What I’m sharing her...
02/07/2026

A solution forward message we hopefully use.
A lot of what we’re seeing right now is not accidental.

What I’m sharing here is hopefully a plan you can implement, informed by more than two decades of trauma work and advocacy across multiple systems.

We already know what’s wrong. We don’t need more Epstein files shoved into our faces on a constant loop. The way this information is being released is not about justice.➡️ It’s about flooding our nervous systems so we’re too fried to pay attention to what else might be happening in the background.

And this needs to be said clearly. Healing and spirituality without accountability are not an effective way to move forward.

I have been saying this for decades, and it has never been more urgent than it is now. Spiritual practices that don’t include accountability, civic responsibility, and real world action become another form of bypassing. Feeling calm while harm continues is not awakening. It’s disconnection.

So here is the plan.

1️⃣ First, nervous system readiness.

Not as self care culture. As preparation. As strategy. A dysregulated body cannot think clearly, organize effectively, or sustain action. Limit the doom scrolling. Sleep. Eat real food. Touch the earth. Breathe all the way down.
➡️ Get steady enough to stay present.

2️⃣ Second, move from consumption to action.

If something enrages you, ask who actually has the power to change it. Then contact them. Call your legislators. Leave voicemails. Send emails that create a paper trail. Support organizations doing legal and advocacy work.
➡️ Outrage without follow through is exactly what these systems rely on.

3️⃣ Third, bring accountability back into spiritual spaces.

If your healing practice never asks you how you are showing up in the world, who you are protecting, or what you are willing to risk, it is incomplete. Community care includes boundaries, responsibility, and repair.
➡️ This is not about purity or perfection. It’s about integrity.

4️⃣ Fourth, organize locally and relationally.
Talk to your people. Build networks of support. Mutual aid, shared resources, and local organizing are how communities survive destabilization.
➡️ Isolation benefits power and it always has.

5️⃣ Fifth, choose sustainable lanes of action.

Not everything is yours to carry. Pick what you can tend consistently without burning out.
➡️ Longevity matters more than intensity.

My role is not to keep people activated or afraid. It’s to help people stay regulated enough to remain engaged, accountable, and effective. Healing and social justice are not separate paths. One without the other collapses.

This is not the time to spiritually check out.

It’s also not the time to let our nervous systems get hijacked.

It’s time to get our bodies steady, our values clear, and our actions aligned.

That’s the plan.

If this feels helpful, I’d love to hear from you. Let me know in the comments what resonates, what you’re already doing, or what feels hardest to implement right now.

And if there are additional practices or actions that have helped you stay grounded and engaged, please share them so others can benefit too.

With care,
Laura

Multigenerational multidisciplinary healer and intuitive, author, ceremonialist, spiritual teacher, sacred activist, Jikiden Reiki Teacher, Spirit Medium, and podcast host of Triggers And Spiritual Medicine

www.LauraHealingWithSpirit.com

02/05/2026

📌 Join Us in Washington D.C. on Feb 10 - 11, 2026

We are deeply honored to invite everyone to join us in Washington, DC, as we approach the destination of this 2,300-mile Walk for Peace. After 108 days and countless steps through many states, we will arrive in our nation’s capital with hearts full of gratitude and peace. We warmly welcome all who wish to be part of these final, sacred moments of our journey.

📌 Our Current Confirmed Schedule (as of Day 100 - February 2, 2026):

- February 10, 2026: We will visit the Washington National Cathedral.

- February 11, 2026: We will host a meditation retreat in the afternoon and evening.

- February 12, 2026: We will depart Washington, DC, to return to Fort Worth, TX by bus.

We will have more events throughout February 10 and 11, from morning to evening, creating beautiful opportunities for everyone to gather and celebrate peace together.

We are still finalizing other events and will share updates as soon as they are confirmed. As we draw closer to Washington, DC, we will provide more detailed information regarding specific times, locations, and additional gatherings. Please stay tuned.

We look forward to welcoming everyone with open hearts as we complete this peaceful journey together. Your presence would be a blessing and a gift to us all.

May you and all beings be well, happy and at peace. 🙏

Spirit Message:As I shared on my January podcast episode of Triggers And Spiritual Medicine, S***z about to get realz fo...
02/05/2026

Spirit Message:
As I shared on my January podcast episode of Triggers And Spiritual Medicine, S***z about to get realz folks. There is no time to panic, analyze, numb ourselves. It's time to get to work.

February all about building and fostering relationships and grass roots community building in preparation for what’s to come.

Things will escalate through May. So this is crucial. Activation. Bonding. Community Building Etc.

Don't forget to breathe.

With care,
Laura Bonetzky-Gaffney
Healing With Spirit
2/4/26

www.LauraHealingWithSpirit.com

Book Your 1:1 reading here: https://HealingWithSpirit.as.me/

Podcast can be found on most streaming platforms and YouTube or go to https://triggersandspiritualmedicine.buzzsprout.com/

See you tonight
02/02/2026

See you tonight

The full SNOW moon rises on February 1st, illuminating the quiet power of winter. This moon has long been associated with endurance, purification, and deep inner listening. It arrives at a threshold moment, when the land is still resting, yet the light is undeniably returning. Dawn is coming earlier. The subtle stirring of life beneath the soil has already begun. - https://mailchi.mp/e4bcbd6c3974/imbolc_vibrational_healing_2026

Thank you all who to yesterday's potent Snow full moon Imbolc threshold 'in the womb" moving from stormy wise Cailleach ...
02/02/2026

Thank you all who to yesterday's potent Snow full moon Imbolc threshold 'in the womb" moving from stormy wise Cailleach of winter to the seeding of Maiden Brigid energy clearing old stories, beliefs, and seeding intentions for 2026.

Join us 📅 TONIGHT, Monday 2/2 at 🕡 6:30pm for a continuation of yesterday's energy portal with the Vibrational Healing Meditation With The Tibetan Singing Bowls & GONG Bath

Walkins welcomed.

Bring a blanket and slippers (no shoes allowed)

📍Healing With Spirit
185 Lincoln St
Suite 300
Hingham MA

www.LauraHealingWithSpirit.com/events

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Our Story

I did not choose this path. It chose me. You must be thinking, WHAT? Yes, I was involved in an abusive relationship at the time. When I finally had the courage to leave in 2005, the abuses escalated, I began to see a divide within myself. What I was receiving through the shelters and American health care system was not only broken, but amplified and used against me in court with my abuser when I sought help and protections.

As like many stories in the #metoo movement, I was heavily retaliated against by the system for seeking justice not only for my case but for 20 other families associated with one judge who had a reputation for punishing survivors of abuse if allegations of abuse surfaced before him.

That led me down a spiritual path to healing my own complex PTSD, which by the way I did not have until the courts were allowed to be used to continue the patterns of abuse.

How to give a brief synopsis without carrying on? Hmmmm. Well, to be short, my story is like a Michael Creighton novel, because what I experienced was too surreal and unimaginable.